‘My dad's wife has hated my mom for as long as I can remember, she even tried to demand a DNA test because I was clearly not my dad's kid’: 18-year-old daughter refuses to nurse stepmother through pregnancy after years of insults and rumors

Stepmothers have cornered the market on villainy, from fairy tales to pop culture, being a thorn in the side of family harmony. But while most stick to locking princesses in towers, making deals with magic mirrors, or handing out poisoned apples, one modern-day stepmom decided to write and stick to her own script: years of insults, casual ill wishes, and enough drama to rival a reality show reunion. Now, after a lifetime of chaos, she's pregnant, high-risk, and—surprise—asking the teenager she tormented for years to help. Because she clearly understands her role's assingnemt. 

It's the classic fairytale recipe: add one father figure who has the emotional depth of a kiddie pool, combine with a stepmother who treats cruelty as a competitive sport, and mix with relentless expectations that the offspring set all of that aside to play nursemaid. The stepmother's greatest hits include spreading rumors about paternity, wishing sickness on the teenager's real mom, and weaponizing passive aggression like an animated blacksmith preparing for war.

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  • Stepmothers may be villains in stories, but at least they’ve got style—spinning wheels, poison, curses. In real life, the drama is more mundane but no less ridiculous. And the dad’s contributions are a masterclass in avoidance. When he’s not brushing off his wife’s behavior as insecurities, politely ignoring the emotional fallout. 

    This teenager isn’t just drawing boundaries; at some point, surviving family drama means stepping out of the narrative entirely.

  • "AITA for refusing to help my dad's pregnant wife and telling him if I visit her I will confront her about all the things she's done?"

    "My dad said she needs people checking in on her and stuff and I refused"
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  • I (18f) live with my mom and I'm a senior in high school. My parents and my dad's wife are a messy situation. My dad dated his wife in high school. I think they started going out when they were 15 and things ended when they were 17
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  • because my dad liked my mom. My parents got together in senior year and stayed together throughout college. I was born right after their college graduations and they broke up when I was 2.
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  • After they broke up my dad and his wife reconnected and hooked up a few times. But then my parents got back together for like 4 months. My mom ended things with dad for good because they
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  • didn't work as a couple and because she found out my dad had been hooking up with his wife literally the same day they got back together. My mom wanted no part of that.
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  • But who does my dad's wife blame for my parents relationship? My mom.
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  • My dad's wife has hated my mom for as long as I can remember. I was maybe 4 when she and my dad got married. So I don't remember life before her. But I disliked her for most of that time.
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  • I can't speak for 4 and 5 year old me. But that POS my dad's married to (and he's a POS too)? She wished for my mom to di . My mom had cancer when I was 9 and my dad's wife wished for it to kill her so they could have me
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  • and she didn't have to deal with "the ex" anymore. But my mom didn't di and I know that haunts her. I heard her wish death on my mom 5 different times. Twice she said it to my face when I told her I hated her. The other three times she was talking to her family or friends and I listened.
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  • My dad's wife blamed my mom for her miscarrying too and having a stillbirth too. She said my mom took dad away from her for so long that she was too old by the time they were trying to have kids.
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  • There were a few times my dad at least tried to be a better dad than he was and would tell his wife to stop dragging me into sh or telling me bad things about mom. He fought her because she agreed to take me to see my
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  • mom in the hospital one time and she didn't. But honestly mostly he made things worse or he didn't care. He'd ask me to not hold his wife's grudge against her and that it's just insecurity and jealousy on her part.
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  • My dad's wife even tried to demand a DNA test be carried out on me because my mom was nothing but a and I was clearly not my dad's kid. She tried to spread that rumor around so mom told dad to do the test and it proved I was his.
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  • My mom tried to win custody of me a few times. There was always some BS from the judge about needing my dad and stuff. Or how I was too young to decide. Or that the situation wasn't toxic enough. I was 17 before a brand
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  • Must've been a pleasure living with stepmom

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  • new judge (we'd had a few) said I was old enough to decide I didn't want to be at my dad's anymore. So that's the choice I made. I didn't go to my dad's house once that decision was reached.
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  • Now my dad's wife is pregnant and her pregnancy is high risk and all sorts of stuff. I don't know all the details. She had a surgery and some time in the hospital to help keep her pregnant. Her
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  • family stayed for a while but now they're gone and dad wanted me to help. He said she needs people checking in on her and stuff and I refused. He pressed it until I stopped responding. Then he told
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  • me after a while of me ignoring his request that it would be just like a visit and I didn't need to do any heavy lifting. So I told him if I visited her I would confront her about all her BS in the past and I asked if he wanted that stress on her now? Or the stress of how repulsive I find her?
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  • Dad told me it would be an evil thing for me to do. I told him it was the only reason I'd ever want to see her. He got pissy about it and I went back to ignoring him.
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  • Complex Storm1929 NTA. It's your father's own fault to be honest. He never shut down the talk about your mom so now he lives with the consequences of you hating his wife. Honestly this woman sounds like a maniac. Who tells a child they hope their mother dies?! That alone would have caused me (as a man) to divorce her for saying that to my child.
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  • Landhippo13 NTA if your dad needs someone to check in then he can hire a midwife, carer or someone else who is trained to look after a lady who is having a high risk pregnancy. It's his responsibility plain and simple.
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  • KillaBibl3 Honestly, your dad's wife a soap opera villain. You should charge her for all the emotional labor she's put you through.
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  • Creative-Ad-145 If you are 18, you should think about blocking him because after 9 month again there will be a call from both of them for baby sitting
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  • Honeyferrn NTA. Your dad's wife has been actively malicious towards your mother and you for years. It's not your job to coddle her or pretend her actions never happened. Your dad's request is completely unreasonable.
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