'[I stole] my sister's cat because she wants to declaw him': Person cat-naps sister's cat because they overheard her talking about declawing him for scratching her sofas

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    "[Am I wrong] for stealing my sisters cat because she wants to declaw him?"

    "[I stole] my sister's cat because she wants to declaw him"
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    I (M24) took my sisters (F22) cat home with me tonight because I overheard her talking to our mum about getting her 1 year old cat an appointment to declaw him! I was outraged but I didn't say anything, I couldn't believe what I was hearing.
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    I don't think she knows it's illegal, let alone the physical, emotional and psychological harm it does to them. I don't even own a pet yet but I could never imagine taking them to go and get mutilated because you don't like your sofas getting scratched?
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    I don't know what to do, I acted on impulse and she's going to know in a day or two that he's "gone missing" I just can't let her do this to him but we don't get on and she wouldn't listen to me, even if I tried to educate her. He's chilling on my sofa at the moment and he's so cute (I'm a dog person) I feel guilty for essentially catnapping him but she would be breaking a law for one since we live in the UK, and it's just downright irresponsible.
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    Ok_Courage140 NTA! Does your sister know what it actually entails? No one should have a cat if they feel it needs declawed.
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    jimmygetmehigh OP Right? I already didn't like her but this just solidified my reasonings. I'm just afraid now I'm going to get in trouble for taking him. I have really bad anxiety already.
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    AtomicFox84 I get that it sucks to get scratched or have your stuff messed up. You find all you can to safely solve the issue first. Put more scratching posts around, keep the cat busy, put caps on the nails etc. Declawing used to be the go to way, but they know now how damaging it is to the cat. I believe its only done in certain circumstances and highly frowned on. She needs to do her research and see how bad it is and look for the better options. If she cant properly take care of her pet, she
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    jimmygetmehigh OP I just don't understand how thick you have to be to get a kitten and not think as it gets older it's probably going to scratch my things? Like cats have claws it's pretty common knowledge. She is dumb though and only wanted it as an accessory for her instagram.
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    UnproductivelyDark First of catnapping ③that made me laugh. You didn't overreact, declawing literally disables the animal and can cause discomfort and pain for the rest of their lives. What you did is super commendable. You got 1000+ karma for this.
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    jimmygetmehigh OP Lol, that made me feel better thank you
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    Tupelo Honey662 If it's illegal in the UK, how did she find a veterinarian willing to declaw the cat? Please talk to your mother about the fact that declawing is comparable to removing a bone up to the first bone joint.
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    jimmygetmehigh OP I'm going to speak to her tomorrow 100% and see if she can shake some sense into my sister. My mum grew up in the times where it was acceptable so I think that's why she didn't question her. Still not an excuse.
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    Ok-Excuse3136 YTAH All your reasons are valid and solid, but you didn't even voice your concern before catnapping. If you had tried to reason with her and she still wanted to go through with it, then I fully support the catnapping! Is there a chance she is ignorant? Maybe she doesn't know all the negative aspects of declawing? Is she a good cat mom in all other areas? You should've talked to her first either way.
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    jimmygetmehigh OP We don't talk and we actively dislike each other so that wasn't really an option I just happened to be in ear shot of the conversation she had with my our mum. She is 100% ignorant and selfish.
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    jrm1102 YTA - your sister is an idiot. She cant get appointment for this. No vet will do this. You're also an idiot for stealing this cat.
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    jimmygetmehigh OP I thought the same thing until I did some research online and found that some veterinarians have been found to offer it as a "black market" procedure to make extra money on the side.
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    seemeff If your sister doesn't notice her cat missing for a day or two, then it's probably best to keep him for that in addition to the possibility of declawing.
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