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Take, for instance, this man, who has been going viral on TikTok for his green flag boyfriend energy. His recent video is him recounting a question someone posed to him about his girlfriend being out of town without him. His girlfriend is in a sorority and she is currently on spring break in Cabo with her sisters, along with some other sororities and frats. Someone asked if he was worried that his girlfriend was at spring break without him surrounded by a bunch of frat dudes. “Ain't no frat boy putting in work like me,” he playfully shouts in the video!
The green flag is simple here: He trust his girlfriend. And he is confused when someone posed a question to him that would suggest anything otherwise. Now THAT is top notch green flag energy, ladies! Take note.
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WATCH:
Boyfriend displays perfect ’green flag energy' when he explains why he's not worried about his girlfriend away on spring break: ‘Ain’t no frat boy putting in work like me!‘
The internet is filled with tales of red flag boyfriends. These are the types of men women date who are pro gaslighters, master manipulators, and grade A mansplainers. These are the kinds of boyfriends that girls have to convince their friends to like. The guys who weaponize their incompetence simply because they don't feel like taking out the trash. The boys who have no idea what carrying all of the mental load even means. These are men riddled with red flags. And, sure, we all think that we will see these red flags and not date these kinds of guys—we're strong, smart, and independent ladies, obviously we know what lovebombing is when we see it! Except… It's really not that easy. Love is blinding—we all truly are fools in love.
But don't worry, ladies. The internet also shares stories of true love and green flag men and we are here to help point them out so you can still see those red flags, even with rose colored glasses on!