'You requested I do not use my own discretion': Haughty manager belittles the administration employee in charge of scheduling staff training, ends up getting 20+ sessions canceled because of malicious compliance

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Jesse Kessenheimer • Writer and Editor
May 15, 2025 8:00 PM EDT

Administrators hold your entire life in their hands. Literally and sort of figuratively, these click-clacking keyboard surfers have the entire company at their fingertips, controlling employee availability, PTO requests, and most importantly, calendar scheduling. Anyone with an ounce of self-preservation in the office would treat their receptionists and other admin folk with the utmost respect, because at the end of each workday, they are powerful enough to pull the strings and find every opportunistic scheduling loophole. 

However, this hot-headed manager just had to be the king of the office, belittling the administration staff to bolster his own company image. But after CCing the entire company on a rage-fueled email to make himself look better than the admin scheduler, he quickly realized he'd just thrown his entire team's priority out the window. 

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  • Because when it comes to admin, the person behind the computer holds all the power to schedule out your next mandatory in 6 months. They know you need these modules scheduled urgently, but there's just no time on the calendar until November—hope that's okay! Keep scrolling for the office karma that came out of a public humiliation email. 

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  • Want to be rude -I will no longer bend rules to help you. M
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  • I work in a training environment I plan training, book training, report etc I do more but that's what is what you need to know for this post. I have also
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  • previously trained staff myself and worked clinically essentially I moved from a clinical role to administrative because of severe health issues. Recently I received
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  • a request from a manager for a member of staff who between myself and four senior members of staff have been trying for 9 months to get them booked It's considered mandatory training
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  • and essential for patients safety. Staff member has either failed to attend, the trainer was sick or she was pulled for clinical reasons. I replied that the date that they requested was full but
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  • here I have booked another. (The rotas for that time period hadn't been done as I checked). Manager of said person (AH manager) goes off on a huge
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  • email rant copying in lots of senior staff directors etc how dare I say when her staff should attend I knew nothing about running a department, or a clinical environment don't dare do this again etc etc.
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  • AH manager own supervisor approached me (someone I have worked with for ten years) and asked what happened I explained she was was happy with my resolution and reasoning. I said it
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  • was no worries I wouldn't book her staff without the full documentation in future. Other senior staff who were also copied in have had a laugh and asked if I told her my previous knowledge and skills base. Nope I'm sure someone will eventually.
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  • Cue the malicious compliance. AH manager has sent through a good number 20 plus of bookings recently ALL declined as full or weren't ever offered or wrong inadequate booking information.
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  • Normally I will look at the rota and book on something else suitable look up the missing info I I don't have to but I get they are busy and it helps. AH manager has phoned 3 times to be met
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  • with as per email you requested that I only use the completed booking form and do not use my own discretion. I am following protocol please complete the application process again.
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  • It's taking her 2-3 times to get the members booked. (Those in charge won't pay for a live booking system but hey not my fault) her compliance figures have dropped massively something they are judged on at annual appraisals. All because she wanted to belittle administration staff.
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  • Zealousideal_Fail9 Good for you and there is nothing she can do about it. Sounds like the right people have your back. She will have to back down or, learn to do it the right way the first time (not likely).
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  • What I hope is that someone else who has issues and knows her will someday say "I didn't have any issues getting my people in and we were three days later sending in our stuff..." LOL
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  • SarkyMs My sister manages a training company, the health customer is always a nightmare.
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  • Princess-Donutt. I'm about to say, most of these compliance training sessions are offered at a set number of times to accomodate schedules and shifts, and department supervisers are expected to stagger their staff to attend them while maintaining operations.
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  • Easier said that done when in person and these sessiosn fill up. A lot of supervisors I know would love to just email the trainer and say: "Hey, here's my 10 RN's and their schedules. Can you just schedule them spaced out a bit, ill take care of my end."
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  • latulent Opposum They FAFO.
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