'My parents charge me rent': Entitled parents try to increase 16-year-old's rent from $600/month to $800, teenager moves out without warning

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    Background my parents are just barely making it, my mom doesn't work. Just my dad.
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    Anyway that's not important rn. My parents charge me rent, 600 every month. Yep, since i was 16. So back then that was nearly all my money.
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    My parents are planning to move soon, and I overheard them talking about increasing my rent to $800/month at the new place. They didn't
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    talk to me about it-they just assumed I'd come with them and s kup the increase. I later found out the new place is out
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    of my dad's price range unless I'm there paying the $800. My mom wants it because she "likes it."
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    Here's the thing: I've quietly been applying for apartments in Texas behind their backs. I don't plan on moving with them
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    at all. I'm ready to start building something on my own, i want to go to college. But if I don't go with them, they can't afford the new place.
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    They're banking on my rent to make it work. So... AITA for not telling them I'm not coming, and letting them move under the assumption that I'll be helping with rent?
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    AJSCRPT 6h ago NTA because they are ahles for charging a child rent. Effectively what you're doing is quiet quitting by letting them dig their own grave. Telling them you're moving out would probably led to lots of guilt tripping,
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    emotional manipulation or them kicking you out before you even find a place. I wouldn't tell them. They aren't safe people if they're trying to trick you by saying 600 and then secretly
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    plotting to force you to pay 800. I wouldn't say anything until your bags are packed and you have your new keys in hand.
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    Civil_Environment... .7h ago Info: have they told you they are moving and expect you to keep paying? But yes, either way it is the right thing to tell them you are not going with them or will be moving as soon as possible so they don't count on the rent.
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    tof... 6h ago Edited 2h ago NTA Your parents are for charging a minor rent but this seems to be a huge US- thing. However, I wouldn't
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    tell them a single thing about your plan about moving out. If they are not above demanding rent from their minor child, upping the rent without communicating
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    it before the move, they might be ready (or desperate enough) to sabotage your wish to move out.
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    Gather all of your important stuff and don't talk to anybody about your plan about moving out.
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    EDIT: Thank you guys, your reponses made my view a bit better :) Good to read that there seem to be more good than bad parents who don't charge rent.
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    Watching Telly Now ⚫ 6h ago If they need $800 to be able to afford it, they'll have to take in a lodger. Move, have a great life, and let them deal with their own mistakes because they're their responsibility, not yours.
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    And as others have suggested, gather your important stuff and paperwork and move that out of their reach (do you have a trusted friend who don't have much to do with your parents?) and keep it
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    with them rather than at home. Also, stop paying the $600 immediately - what are they going to do about it - kick you out?
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