Maid of honor gets ghosted by the bride: 'Never got invited to her wedding, I saw her a couple times at events and she ignored me.'

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Christiana Maimone • Freelance Writer
Jun 23, 2025 1:00 PM EDT

Being chosen as the maid of honor is not a task for the weak. You're not only a part of the endless wedding planning and decision-making, but also essentially making sure that the bride is as happy as can be. In this wedding tale, the maid of honorgets blindsided by the bride's family and the bride herself. When tasked with planning a group dance for the engagement party, the bride's sisters are anything but cooperative. They decide that they have other plans and completely leave her out of the loop, making up their own dance and making the maid of honor look bad. The bride takes it upon herself to ditch her maid of honor and side with her sisters. But it's safe to say that our maid of honor dodged a bullet being left out of this ceremony. Is it really a wedding if there isn't any drama? 

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    Went from bridesmaid to no invite to the wedding

    Nearly 6 years ago, my lifelong best friend asked me to be her maid of honour. She asked us at a restaurant and asked us to do a group dance at her engagement party first!
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    I made a group chat with the bridesmaids and tried to arrange times to practice the dance. I offered my house as a place to practice. 3 people replied and her sisters never replied or they always said they were busy. We practiced a few times without the sisters at my house.
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    I messaged the group chat again before the wedding and said we need to finalize this dance or we won't be able to do it. Sisters still didn't reply and never attended our practice sessions.
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    2 days before the engagement party I message again and said if you guys aren't available we should skip the dance so we don't embarrass her since we never practiced with everyone and the
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    practiced with everyone and the sisters don't know the dance at all, "but let me know if we can squeeze in today and tomorrow." No response.. I guess the dance is cancelled?
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    Engagement party comes, we're sitting at the bridesmaids table. All of a sudden all the bridesmaids go on stage except me and one other girl. They all do a dance, including her sisters. The
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    a dance, including her sisters. The other girl and I are shocked and so confused. They did an entire rehearsed dance??
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    So I go down to the brides room later, and the bride goes im so mad at you. I ask why?? She's like I heard you never went to the rehearsals and said "I don't want to do the dance"..
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    I was flabbergasted. I mean I tried so hard, made a group chat, texted constantly, tried to arrange times to practice and offered my house.. I told her this and she
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    house.. I told her this and she didn't believe me. I said let me show you the group chat! She goes "whatever", I'm not going to believe you over my sisters!
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    I was livid the rest of the night, I let it go. New years came along I invited her to my house party, then my birthday and she never came to anything.
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    The following year - I see a Bach trip. I'm not there and never knew about it. I messaged her and asked her and she said she hadn't heard from me since her engagement, tried to cancel her dance and never asked to hang out with her since so she won't be
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    out with her since so she won't be inviting me to her wedding. Also she added that since I didn't invite her to my brothers engagement party, I shouldn't be offended my brother never had an engagement party. Just proposed to his gf and my mom aunts and uncles had a family ... dinner for them.
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    Good lord. I ended up just deleting her on everything and was just shocked. Never got invited to her wedding, I saw her a couple times at events and she ignored me
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  • I do wonder what the hidden beef was between these sisters and the excommunicated maid of honor. Jealousy? Hidden secrets from the past? It seems much deeper than simply not liking her personality. Either way, this might have been a blessing in disguise for our maid of honor, who got unanimous support from the commenters of Reddit. 

     

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    thicwith2cs Wow the sisters must have had some unknown problem with you. I would have sent your friend screenshots of the group chat where the sisters didn't respond, then blocked her. She didn't deserve your friendship.
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    PsychologicalWill88 OP That's what I assumed. Have no idea what was their problem. The sisters are much younger than us. I was 24 at the time and her sisters were 18 and 20!
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    Paperwhite418 Sometimes the trash takes itself out.
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    abear61 Doesn't sound like a loss at all.
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    Puzzled-Safe4801 Count yourself lucky that you didn't have to spend money on this ex friend's wedding. What a win for you.
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    Baby8227 A rehearsed dance for the engagement; I'm real life cringing for her! Looks like you got the best deal as you didn't have to take part in that seeing her for who she truly was! show as well as
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