Homeowner’s backyard pool turns into a kids’ public summer camp thanks to her 4, 6, and 8-year-old niblings, forcing her to ban them from her home completely: ‘I told her I needed a break. She got offended and said I was being a snob’

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Etai Eshet • Editor
Jun 22, 2025 3:00 PM EDT

Life has this built-in funny little quirk where the moment you acquire anything remotely enjoyable, it instantly transforms into communal property, especially if it contains water and the promise of splashing chaos. For one fresh homeowner, the dream of a peaceful backyard oasis lasted about as long as it took her sister to wake up and smell the chlorine. Suddenly, her hard-earned sanctuary became the neighborhood's loudest, wettest, and most unsupervised day camp, starring three tiny hurricanes who treat peace and quiet like it's an urban legend.

It's one of those unwritten family rules: if you have a pool, you're not just a sibling, you're a lifeguard, snack bar, and janitor rolled into one. The kids, armed with limitless energy and zero volume control, turn every visit into a splashy, shrieking free-for-all, complete with indoor sprints, snack wrappers, and the occasional aquatic biohazard. The adults, meanwhile, are expected to smile serenely and accept that "family comes first" means "your boundaries come last."

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  • Am I the wrong for not letting my sister’s kids swim in my pool because they “don’t know how to be quiet”?

    "Her kids are really loud, and they don't listen to anyone, not even her"
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  • So I (31F) recently bought a house with a pool. It's something I've worked toward for years. I saved, planned, and finally made it happen. It's my little sanctuary.
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  • My sister (34F) has three kids (ages 4, 6, and 8). Ever since she found out I have a pool, she has been asking to bring them over "for a swim." At first, I said yes,
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  • thinking it would be occasional. But now she expects to come over every weekend, sometimes even during the week if school's out.
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  • The issue is, her kids are really loud, and they don't listen to anyone ― not even her. They scream, run around soaking wet inside my house, splash water
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  • everywhere, leave trash, and once, one of them peed in the shallow end and laughed about it. I was horrified.
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  • After three weekends of chaos, I told her I needed a break and would keep pool days to just me and a few friends for now. She got offended and said I was being
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  • a snob and "hate kids." I clarified that I don't hate kids, but I do hate my peaceful weekend turning into a screaming zoo.
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  • She said I was being selfish and that "family comes first." Now my mom has gotten involved and says I should "open my heart" and that "it's just water."
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  • I feel bad, but it's my pool, my house, and my time. Am I the j ?
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  • So when this homeowner finally drew a line in the chlorinated sand, she wasn’t declaring war on children, she was staging a last stand for adult sanity. Of course, in the grand tradition of family drama, her sister and mother immediately formed a guilt-tripping tag team, wielding phrases like “open your heart” and “it’s just water” with the precision of seasoned fencers.

    So this woman, who just wanted a quiet float in her own pool. Got a crash course in why “no” is the most underrated word in the English language.

  • davidincera01 Your house YOUR rules
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  • MorteDagger NTJ. Tell yes you hate kids that have no manners and you hate the parents that don't parent said kids
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  • Kristan8 NTJ. You started off by being gracious. Your sister abused the privilege by not controlling her kids, and by coming by too much. Your mother needs to stay out of
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  • this one as well. I hope you have pics of all the trash they left etc. Meanwhile, enjoy your pool. You earned it.
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  • Sassy-Peanut You said it - your pool, your house, and your time. Definitely not the j . But anyone who says 'It's just water' is the j - they have no idea what it costs in time and money to maintain a safe, clean swimming pool.
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  • Different Guess_54 NTJ - you are not being selfish your sister seems to expect you to give in at let her brats do whatever they want whenever they want.
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