26-year-old tech worker’s aunt demands his old car for her 19-year-old son, insists he owes the family for his success, but he refuses to just hand it over for free: ‘She has this weird resentment toward me for getting out of our small town’

There's a big difference between being a nepo-baby and being a regular person who clawed their way up the career ladder with nothing but caffeine, questionable ramen, and the vague encouragement of parents who still don't quite understand what you do for a living. Sure, it's good to be grateful for your roots. Maybe you thank your mom for teaching you how to budget or your dad for showing you how to change a tire. But let's be honest, nobody gets to the finish line of "mildly successful adult" and thinks, "Wow, I owe it all to my aunt's relentless ability to forward chain emails and criticize my haircut at Thanksgiving."

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  • AITA for not letting my cousin have my old car, even though my aunt says I “owe” the family for being successful?

    "She asked when I could drop it off"
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  • Yet here comes Aunt Martyr, who has decided that your new car is a reward not just for you, but for the entire extended family, and that your cousin’s lack of wheels is a cosmic injustice you are personally responsible for correcting. Apparently, being thankful for your upbringing now means you’re expected to hand over your old Civic free of charge, because nothing says “family values” like a guilt trip with a side of entitlement.

  • I (26M) work in tech and recently bought my first new car. It's nothing crazy, just a reliable sedan. My old car, a 2009 Civic, still runs but has a ton of miles on it. I planned to sell it cheap or trade it in.
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  • So, my aunt, who's my mom's sister, heard about the new car through our family group chat. She texted me saying her son
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  • (19M) could really use a starter car and asked when I could drop it off. There was no question
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  • about buying it. It was just straight-up asking when I could give it to them.
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  • I told her I wasn't planning to just give it away, but I'd sell it at a reasonable price. It's not worth much, but I've taken good care of it, and it's mine. She immediately
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  • got snippy and said I make enough money now. She insisted it wouldn't kill me to do something nice for my cousin.
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  • It’s one thing to be grateful for your upbringing, but it’s another to act like your aunt’s greatest contribution to your success was letting you sit at the kids’ table until you were twenty. If there’s a secret club where people owe their careers to their aunts, it must be a very, very exclusive group, so exclusive that even nepo-babies are still waiting for their invitations. Until then, you’ll keep your Civic, your boundaries, and your sense of humor firmly intact.

  • Honestly, she's always had this weird resentment toward me for getting out of our small town and doing well. Her tone turned passive-aggressive really fast. She
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  • said things like, some of us didn't get handed life on a silver platter, even though I worked full-time through college and took out loans.
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  • Now she's telling the rest of the family I'm selfish and that I've forgotten where I came from.
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  • Even my mom gently suggested I should consider giving them the car just to avoid drama.
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  • But I don't think I owe anyone a free car just because I make a decent income now. I offered to sell it fairly, they refused, and I left it at that.
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  • kmflushing Trust me, you should sell it to someone else. Save yourself the headache. With that kind of entitlement, any little thing that happens with the car in the future, is going to come back to haunt you.
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  • "Well, OP, you shouldn't have sold it if the tires need changing, so you should pay for brand new ones now. So what if my darling precious has had it for 2 years and put 78,000 miles on it since we got it."
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  • lapsteelguitar "$5k and it's yours."
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  • Rebel4211 NEVER DO business with family!! Trade it in or sell to a stranger. As one mentioned- if something happens to it, it will be your fault.
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