Family entitlement is passed on to older brother, little sister finally claps back after being guilt tripped into living with him and a leak springs: ‘[He had] wide eyes Pikachu face.’

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  • "Or are you also in the habit of expecting your little sister to do everything for you?"
  • "Want to shame me? Ok! Let's see...."

    I will try not to bore you with the details, but idiot me lived with my brother for a while because my parents wanted to and we are family. And by that read he lived rent and : pretty much everything free, like I said I am an idiot (I thought I was just nice). I also found him a job btw.
  • well we had a leak in the bathroom that seemed to come from upstairs. first time I thought I heard water running when no one was in the bathroom, he called me crazy.... we
  • couldn't see the damage but after a while the damage started to show and I had to deal with the owner of the building and the renter upstairs...; responsability was unclear.
  • the thing is he didn't care or even bothered to listen when I updated him, so I stopped. I worked really far (1h30 away) so it was hard to find time to meet with the owner...etc. (he worked on the same street btw)
  • because of this it dragged on a bit and obviously now the paint in the bathroom went from white to a yellowish, partially brownish shade.
  • one day a friend of my brother, who would come from time to time, came to me while I was washing my hands. Pointing at the stained he asked something like why aren't you fixing that? or when are you fixing that?
  • STAMES
  • I was taken aback and surprised by the question. the thing is I am always nice and polite and things usually gloss over me, even if you say something that can be misconstrued. so I think he didn't expect me to answer the way I answered.
  • me with a big smile: why are you asking me? why don't you ask your friend? he lives here too if I am not mistaken? him wide eyes pikachu face
  • me: or are you also in the habit of expecting your little sister to do everything for you? he went back silently in the living room! not a peep from any of them!
  • I hope it hit particularly hard because he comes from a society where these things are seing as being handled by guys!
  • just an other mama's boy, but a rotten one! I just didn't realise how much. and yeah the situation escalated a lot after that! lol. I left the country and broke/transfered the lease and he was mad about it lol (I guess he expected me to keep everything in my name)
  • A word of advice to people out there, when people like that are around you family of not just break of contact, they are not worth it. As for the ah les who find them excuses and tell you that they are family or witness and watch without saying anything they are bad people cut them out too.

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