'I’m not trying to steal him, he just comes in my cat door': Senior cat's visits to peaceful next door neighbor sparks feud when pawrents suddenly switch up and demand he come home

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Sarah Brown • Writer and Editor
Jul 9, 2025 6:00 PM EDT

This tale is a textbook case of feline friction brewing next door! Sam, the neighbors' senior cat with special needs, started slipping through the cat door into the quieter, dog-free home next door. At first, the neighbors were completely fine with it, even sending over his prescription food and medication to care for him while he visited. But tensions rose when Sam began spending more and more time there, sleeping overnight and soaking up the extra love and calm away from his noisy household.

Eventually, the neighbors clawed back their support, pulling his food and meds to try and lure him back home. This left Sam's new caretakers in a tough spot trying to juggle their own cats' meals while keeping Sam from sneaking extra bites, all amid a chorus of midnight meows and feline food drama. What started as a peaceful setup has turned into a full-on neighborhood cat feud. And Sam is caught right in the middle.  

The host is now purrplexed and unsure what to do, as Sam simply won't stop coming over. This drama shows just how complicated cat custody can become when a furry friend finds comfort beyond their original home. Sometimes, the grass (and kibble) is greener next door!

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    'They wanted to talk about how hard it has been for them that Sam is moving in with me'
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    My neighbors have two cats and two dogs and two relatively loud young adult sons. One of their cats, Sam, started entering my house through the cat door I have for my own cats. Sam slowly started to stay at my house more and more and then sleep here overnight.
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    Sam has medical conditions and requires prescription food and pills. The neighbors initially gave me some of his special food for him to have at my house, and gave me some of his pills to medicate him on mornings when he was at my house and not theirs.
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    But then they switched gears and called me and said they wanted to talk about how hard it has been for them that Sam is moving in with me and how sad it makes them. I said I'm not trying to steal him, he just comes in my cat door, and I'm nice to him. I pet him and play with him just like my own cats and my house is quiet - no dogs no kids. So maybe he feels more peaceful here.
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    Nonetheless the neighbors are now kind of angry at me. They took back his food and pills and told me not to let Sam eat anything at my house so that he will be hungry enough to go home. But that means I can't put out my own cats' food, especially at night, and now my cats wake me up at night for food because I can't leave their kibble down for them. It's a dang mess.
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    I just stopped telling my neighbors when Sam is at my house. They never come looking for him. I stop him from eating my cats' food whenever I catch him doing it and I bought some of his prescription kibble and put it down for him. But he does sometimes steal some of my cats' food - I can't always stop him.
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    Imchatterbox ESH. None of these cats should be allowed to roam freely.
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    Dapper_Viking This isn't a popular opinion but I promise you every veterinarian in your city and mine agrees:
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    YTA for having a cat door and outdoor cats. That is not responsible pet ownership and is recommended against by every veterinary society. Pet cats belong safely indoors where they don't get hit by cars and into fights with raccoons.
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    Your neighbor is an even bigger for having an outdoor cat with pre- existing health conditions. None of this is what responsible pet ownership looks like. I would highly recommend reading about responsible cat ownership when you have the time.
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  • Sounds like both sides are being a bit careless here. Maybe a calm sit-down with your neighbor could clear the air and help find the purrfect solution for Sam’s visits and everyone’s peace of mind.

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    LawyerDad1981 Tell your neighbors to simply keep their cat at home. If they won't do that, then there are electronic cat doors that can only be triggered by a cat wearing a special collar...and THEY are more than welcome to purchase that system for you
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    Ponderch3rry YTA. Lock your cat door and keep your cats INSIDE where they're safe. Double win because your neighbours cat won't be able to enter your house.
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    Wonderful_Two_6... NTA. Neighbor can stop this by keeping Sam inside.
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    AigledeFeu_ Esh. Cats should not be let roaming. Also, this cat is not yours. Did you pay for it? Did you pay for its vet bills? Its not the cat to decide and not for you either. Its not yours, dont let him get inside your place.
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    NiteWraith You know you can close your cat door right? Seems to me to be a pretty simple solution.
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  • Closing the cat door might be the purrfect solution to keep everyone happy. No more unexpected visits, less drama, and your own furballs get their space without surprise guests!

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    dstarpro You're all the ah les for letting your cats out.
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    keesouth YTA you seem to think that a cat gets to choose where they live. You could be doing more to make sure that cat goes home. You can't just take someone's cat because you think they like your house more.
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    WestCovina1234 NTA. Your neighbors? They're The solution is so simple -- if they want to keep Sam all to themselves, they need to stop letting him roam the neighborhood. Problem solved.
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  • If Sam’s pawrents don’t want him roaming next door, it’s on them to keep him safely inside. Cats will wander, but boundaries and care start at home. Time for some serious catversation!

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    No_Newt_8293 Y'all both the stop letting your cats roam in other people yard
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    1Negative_Person ESH Cats should be kept indoors.
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