Ex demands 100% of joint house sale proceeds, claiming their ex-partner is more financially stable and should walk away empty-handed for the sake of fairness: ‘My partner essentially asked that I turn over the keys and walk away’

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  • AITA for not agreeing to give my ex all of our house sale proceeds when we split?

    H 41x 45 x 35 CM "Ex is insisting that the caring and loving thing to do would be to agree to this"
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  • Been together a bit over 5 years, jointly bought a house and I put 20% down since I had the finances and my partner did not, we've split mortgage expenses since.
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  • We experienced a terrible family tragedy and now we're splitting up. My partner essentially asked
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  • that I turn over the keys and walk away or give all the proceeds of the house sale to them. Because I
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  • came in with more money and have more stable future financial outlook, my partner feels that this
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  • is the right thing for me to do. For context, we both have children from previous relationships as well.
  • We're not legally married, but I've been through divorce before and understand general a
  • practice is that what you bring into a relationship is a non-martial asset, and yet I am experiencing
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  • extreme guilt about the fact that my Ex is insisting that the caring and loving thing to do would be to
  • agree to this. I've requested several times now that I get back the down payment, we split
  • the rest of the proceeds 50/50 and go our separate ways, but they
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  • seem unwilling to consider that and believe they have a case should we go to court.
  • Drayden71 NTA don't let your partner make you feel guilty. In reality they should only get half of what's left after you take back your down payment. You weren't put on this planet to subsidize their life
  • StandingGoat NTA - ex sounds greedy and manipulative.
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  • Lucky-Guess8786 Since they didn't pay into the downpayment, imo, you should pull out your 20% and then split the rest. You are owed the downpayment amount as it is not part of any shared profit.
  • Tell them to follow through and initiate any court proceedings. It's likely an empty bluff, but if it isn't then hopefully you can come to an agreement through mediation or court.
  • My condolences to you both on the tragedy. I hope you are eventually able to find peace in your grief.
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