Son offers to pay half of mom's rent after she reveals it's overdue, only for entitled mom to complain he's not giving her the full amount: ‘You can afford it, why just half?’

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    Entitled MIL asks for help with rent, gets mad we only offered 50% because I'm "rich enough to pay it all"

    | 32F am married to my husband 34M and we are doing okay financially. I earn about 3x more than my husband, mostly
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    because I come from a well- off family and have a good job. My husband has two siblings, but we are the most financially stable among them.
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    Last week, my MIL called me directly and started complaining about how her rent was long overdue. She said she couldn't meet up with it and asked if I could
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    help her out. I told her, politely, that I would speak to her son (my husband) and get back to her.
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    Later that evening, i and my husband discussed it and agreed to assist her with 50% of the rent from our joint account. So
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    immediately after the discussion right there my husband called her and told her know that she would get half the rent from us.
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    Her response? "Why only 50%? I'm going to speak with your wife." Then she hung up on him.
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    Next thing I know, she calls me pretending like my husband hadn't just spoken to her and goes, "What about what I told you concerning my rent? You
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    said you will get back to me." I told her, "My husband has told you already that you will be getting half of the rent from us."
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    Her tone immediately changed. "Just half? Why?" I calmly explained, "That's what we're able to give right now."
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    She then said "But you are more rich. If you were a good daughter-in-law, you would have e given me the full amount. You can afford it."
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    At that point, I suggested maybe she could ask her other two kids to help cover the rest. Her reply? "No, they're not rich. But you are rich." I just hang off the call on her.
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    FrauAmarylis I would give 0. She gets to control her money. You get to control yours.
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    Advanced-Pear-8988 I'd rescind that 50% offer so fast! Beggars can't be choosers! If anyone of his siblings complain tell them they're more than welcome to pay her rent.
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    DaveWpgC What happens next month? Once you help with an expense that comes due every month you will be expected to help every month.
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    No-Hospital559 Never talk about money with family. Ever. As far as my family knows I could be making 35k or 200k. It's nobody else's business.
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    Straysmom She sees you as strictly an ATM. Not a person with feelings. After that tantrum, I would have told her straight up that you are not her retirement plan & she needs to figure her sh out like an adult.
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    MzStrega I would offer to pay one month's rent, on condition she went through her income and expenses with you in detail, so you could help her with a
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    budget. I'd put money on her being outraged and flatly refusing. And by doing so, also. refusing the rent money.
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    Whole-Ad-2347 What is she spending her money on? Does she spend money she doesn't have because she thinks you should take care of her?

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