39-year-old baby sister Maggie tracks older sister’s Venmo payments to uncover cruise details, sends husband to guilt-trip trying to crash the vacation: ‘I told him nicely it was too late. Cabins and hotel booked, excursions set, rental car full’

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  • Entitled Baby Sister Sees My Vacation Plans On Venmo - Then Invites Herself!

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  • My (43F) husband's family planned a big cruise. We leave next month. I
  • invited my big sister "Lisa" (51F) because she's fun, easy to travel with, and my in-laws adore her.
  • Me Payments Send Money $236.33 USD 040AM Bdance 9632165 Make Transfer -5412 ABC 1 2 3 4 би 7 PORS 5 JKL 8 TUV 0 DEF 6 MNO 9 WXYZ Transactions Received $236.33 USD 0440AM
  • She's super shy, so it's fun to help her get out and explore the world. His
  • family generally keeps travel plans private for security reasons.
  • Out of nowhere, I get a text from the husband of my baby sister ("Maggie" 39F):
  • "Hey! I noticed you're going on a cruise with Lisa. Can Maggie come, too?"
  • I asked how he even knew we had a trip planned. We haven't told anyone. His answer?
  • "Venmo."
  • Make Tran Menu Payments $75 USD Received 08:26AM 08:26AM Menu Sent Payments $75 USD Balance-$6,521.65 Make Transfer **** 5412 4 GHI 251 ABC JK
  • Really?? He saw a Venmo payment memo between me and Lisa that mentioned a cruise... and
  • somehow he decided that his wife is entitled to crash our trip.
  • He tried to guilt me onto inviting her. But I told him nicely it was too late and everything is locked in.
  • Cabins and hotel booked, excursions set, rental car full.
  • Now he has ghosted me. We rarely talk unless they want something, so this tracks.
  • And no, I did NOT offer to include her on the next trip. Because I don't want to. As kids, Maggie would
  • whine and get our mom to demand we include her on outings that she was too young to even enjoy.
  • Now I have a feeling she has her husband doing her dirty work.
  • What entitlement! No wonder we don't tell anyone about our plans. Dang Venmo notes!
  • Has anyone else fallen victim to the consequences of Venmo
  • memo stalkers? Let's set our notes to Private people!
  • TL;DR: Invited my awesome older sister on a cruise with my husband's family. My BIL sees a Venmo memo and tries to insert my entitled baby sister into the trip. I said no. He ghosted. Sorry Bro! This ship has sailed.

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