25-year-old woman puts jealous sister-in-law in her place when SIL accuses her of “shoving her dreams in her face” for posting vacation on Instagram: “It’s not my fault you don’t get time after the baby”

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    Aita for telling my SIL it’s not my fault she doesn’t get time to herself after the baby?

    "Why are you shoving your dreams in my face?"
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    So my SIL is being very difficult with me, she does this a lot. She kinda drops her problems on me and expects me to pitch in to
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    help. So why we get into as many disagreements, when I start setting up boundaries now I'm TA.
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    Sil(29F) op(25F) brother(42m) So my SIL is a SAHM to 3, had her 3rd child 2 months ago. My brother works full time at a warehouse job, so he's rarely
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    home. He's been on maternity leave since the baby arrived, SIL said he helps sometimes with the feeding but doesn't change the baby since he feels uncomfortable doing it.
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    She vents a lot but she beats around the bush to get me to do things for her, things that should be discussed about with her partner. I felt like the third parent,
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    I asked her if she could stop telling me her personal business with my brother because that's not my right to know.
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    Anyways, my SIL called me up. I thought it was her usual rants so I was going to hang up but it wasn't, she called because she wanted to know why I went out.
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    the country without telling her. I didn't think I had to honestly, she was more upset because she doesn't get time to herself. She the went on her rant saying she
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    never gets a break, lost her friends, why am I not with my child, and I'm shoving my dreams in her face. Why am I blamed for that? She only knew I was
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    somewhere because I posted it on my instagram story, that was all and I wasn't shoving it in anyone's face. I told her that
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    wasn't my fault she doesn't get time and she needs to talk to her husband about those problems because I can't fix them.
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    Motor-Juggernaut... • 7h ago I stopped reading when you said her husband didn't change diapers. She needs him to man up.
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    No_Secret_4560 • 7h ago Block her on IG so you can save her from having to see you living your life.
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    Godiva Plaistow • 7h ago Does she know she married your brother, not you? NTA
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    System_Resident ⚫ 7h ago She needs to take her frustration out on her husband and stop being a moron. This is her third kid,
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    she knows better by now. You don't get a break from being a parent. She shouldn't have had another kid if she was already so
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    miserable with the first 2 taking up her time. NTA she needs to grow up and so does her husband. She's not entitled to anything from you
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    a_br4r • 7h ago NTA. She's the one to blame not you. She KNEW your brother wouldn't help her so why
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    have a second child let alone a third one with him?! It's best to keep her at an arm's length. Recommend she sees a therapist if she
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    wants someone to vent to. If she claims you don't care about her, just reply with "you're never happy for me so why should I?!".

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