Husband refuses to let wife choose their new dogs' names after she named their two children alone, she struggles to accept his decision: ‘You lost the right to veto’

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    "I want to choose their names"
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    AITA for telling my wife she lost the right to veto our dogs’ names after she named both our kids against my wishes?

    I've been with my wife for 10 years, married for 8, and we have 2 kids (6 and 4). When our kids were born, my wife chose both of their names. I'll be
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    honest, I didn't really like either name. We discussed it at the time, but in the end I let her have the final say because she was the one who
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    went through pregnancy, gave birth, and put her body on the line. I compromised. And also both names mean a lot to her.
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    Fast forward to now, we're adopting 2 Maltese puppies next week. They're siblings from the same litter, one male and one female. This time, I
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    told my wife I want to choose the names, and she said she was fine with that. I ended up naming them Jamie and Cersei, yes,
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    from Game of Thrones. I know it's weird, but they're siblings from my favorite show so I decided on those names. Our dogs will be spayed and
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    neutered, so it's not like it matters, and I genuinely think they'll be lifelong companions, which is why the names feel fitting to me.
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    However, my wife says the names make her uncomfortable because of the obvious connotation of those names. I told her
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    she doesn't really have the right to veto them, she got to name both our kids, even though I wasn't a fan of those names. I
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    told my wife she has to deal with it and compromise and my wife. ultimately accepted it. AITA?
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    Woman with Baby Names List Sitting on Sofa, Closeup
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    rachelmig2 I mean better than naming human children Jamie and Cersei.
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    clemdane I think the bigger problem is it sounds like you have lingering resentment over your children's names.
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    zvaksthegreat I see why your wife insisted she was the one to name the kids
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    No_Pattern_5251 Dude. Why are you married to someone who you clearly don't like or respect?
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    Jmfroggie The fact you still resent your wife for ALLOWING her to name your children is a problem. The fact you're bringing it up 8 years later makes it so much worse.
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    Yta. Names should have been a 2- yes situation. You let her choose and now you want to hold it over her head.
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    thediscodancersd d D. n. I mean, good job proving that it was the right decision to not let you name the human children, I guess. What a wild argument to make.
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    bostonwren Yikes. You both kind of sck. I feel like naming children and animals are probably the least of your issues with each other.
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    remyknows8182 ESH - you both kinda sk, but I vote you name the pups. Your household doesn't go by the 2 yes, if one no it's no?

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