17-year-old reveals to high school counselor his plans to go no contact with his parents after graduation, counselor tells parents, who confront their son: 'Why would you cut off your family?'

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Bar Mor Hazut • Senior Editor
Aug 17, 2025 2:00 PM EDT

When you were in high school, have you ever told something to the guidance counselor under the impression that they were going to keep it between the two of you?

Well, apparently, not every counselor keeps the details of their conversations with students private. Some, like the counselor in the story below, even find it necessary to tell parents about what their kids say during their sessions.

This 17-year-old son has planned a pretty clear path for his future, one that does not include his parents or his siblings. He feels like he can't be around them anymore, mostly due to his father's parenting, or lack thereof, when it comes to his younger siblings. So the teen's plan is clear–graduate, get his own place, and cut contact with the family.

After he told this plan to his high school counselor, he was surprised to learn that the counselor revealed it to his parents, who were hurt to discover their son's intentions to cut them off from his life.

They decided to confront him about it, so keep scrolling to read the full story and find out what happens next.

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    AITAH for telling my dad and his wife I WILL be going no contact with them when I leave?

    I'm 17m but when I was younger and my brothers were born (10, 7, 4) they got away with everything; breaking my stuff, stealing my stuff, stealing
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    my snacks, goin through my iPad, intentionally pouring water on my PS, etc and I had enough so when I was 15, my grandparents bought me a
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    lock pad for my birthday and my dad was like "Why didn't you get something he would want?" Little did he know that's exactly what I wanted.
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    My grandpa installed it when my dad wasn't home and I'm the only one who knows the password. My siblings can't get in, they'll slide stuff under
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    my door likes pens, toys, books, toilet paper and they'll make a mess by doing it. My stepmom and my dad just said they want my attention and
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    they wanna play. I don't wanna play with them, after them stealing my sh and not being disciplined, I started resenting them.
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    I then found out a way to stay away from them ALL day. School and a job. I tried out for football (I made it in) so now after days of school I have
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    practice and I don't have to go home and see them, and if I don't have football...I'm in FBLA and im a leader so I have obligations to be at meetings
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    once more don't have to see my siblings. I go home take a shower, get dressed, drive to work, and work 5 hours, come home and it's usually 10:25pm
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    and it's an hour pass their bedtime and theyre in the bed. Take a shower, make a healthy meal (usually salad or a lettuce Caesar chicken wrap), talk to my girlfriend, sleep. A
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    successful day of staying away from my siblings. I only see them during breakfast for a few minutes. I usually come back down after my workout and shower, say good
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    morning, grab a granola bar or fruit, and I'm out the door, 3-5 minutes around them that one time of the day.
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    My counselor talks to all the students at the beginning of the year. He asked me what was my plan after high school, I was straight forward with him.
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    • Go to UGA • Get my own apartment • Go no contact with my family • Start a personal fitness program
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    • Settle down, get married, have 2-3 kids • Live my best life • Go through . 'I and s since it comes with living
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    My counselor told my parents and they said why would you cut off your family? I said "Not Pops and G-ma" and my dad said he's done trying to parent me, my uncles found out and they said I was a d k. AITAH? I think not.
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    Working-Method-3010 You've got to do what you have to do, I would be upset at your counselor for telling what you thought was a private conversation.
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    Prior Fault2801 NTA. I would be filing a complaint about the counsellor... Plan your exit strategy well. You will need a source of income and roof over
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    your head. The military maybe an option training, roof, money career. Otherwise research and save all the money you can. Your family sounds awful. I wish you luck!
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    rocketmn69 Tell your dad, "Maybe if you had parented your kids, it wouldn't I have had to come to this. You gave no s'about me, why start now?"
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    wolfhuntra NTA. Wrecking all your stuff and zero consequences = bad parents for your siblings. The good news: You are motivated to SUCCEED. If you can handle School, FBLA and a
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    part time job you can handle college. Stay focused and motivated. Rise and Soar like an Eagle for you are NOT A turkey (and NTA).
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