‘She's a grown woman with a good job making good money’: Parents host their adult daughter rent-free after a breakup, she demands a Wi‑Fi upgrade for her bedroom, leading them to put their foot down

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  • Adult daughter lives for free with us, wants us to pay to upgrade wifi for her

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  • We love our daughter and we have a good relationship. She had a breakup and moved home in July temporarily.
  • (6 months? 12 months?). We are more than happy to help out and she can stay as long as she needs to, but she is complaining about our wifi coverage.
  • and how it's affecting her ability to do her job remotely. She can be pretty frugal and has asked us to pay for an extender that will cover her bedroom.
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  • We said "no way" after laughing a little bit. To be fair, our AT&T wifi has always been spotty at either end of our large home, so we can understand her issue.
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  • However, she's a grown woman with a good job making good money and has significant savings. Significantly ahead of where others her age are (28 - 30).
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  • My wife and I are retired empty nesters and our wifi works perfectly well for us. She has other options to connect (plenty of room in the finished basement) but doesn't like to work there due to furniture (1 room) or lack of windows (other 2 rooms).
  • We can afford to do whatever we want with our house but find it off-putting that she wouldn't just buy/rent the extender and be done with it.
  • We don't charge rent, we pay for groceries (she has dietary restrictions so she does buy some of her own as well), and we cook or provide dinner 6 days a week (she cooks one dinner a week).
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  • We believe her asking/expecting us to pay for this "since it's your house" is over the top.
  • Mind you, we're also paying for a family vacation (flights, hotel, rental car, attractions/park tickets, meals) in a month. We get that children get used to parents paying for everything but this one has us alternately laughing out loud and scratching our heads.
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  • She refuses to pay anything for the extender "on principle", and so I guess it's on principle that we're refusing.
  • Are we the As?

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