30-year-old woman reports 33-year-old fiancé as missing after he disappears at 10:00 PM to buy deodorant, turns out he was cheating: 'Do not marry this man!'

It certainly does not take seven hours to buy deodorant!

This lady might be naive, but she had a right to be worried. Her fiancé had gone out at 10:00 PM to replenish on deodorant while she was taking care of their young child. After approximately one hour, the author was wondering what was taking her husband so long to return. She tried to reach him, but he wasn't responding to her texts or calls. 

Two more hours passed, and it was now one in the morning. The author became convinced that he was missing. She ended up calling her mom over so she could have some help looking for her reckless spouse while her sister would watch the baby. This took all night, as her husband was nowhere to be found and the radio silence from his end continued. 

By the time the author called the police to report her husband as a missing person, things actually started to get serious. The police arrived at the author's home and began their formal search process when her husband finally showed up. Let's just say that his claims were far too suspicious. Several members of this online community pointed this out and confronted the author with the cold hard truth: This man was dishonest at best and adulterous at worst. There were simply too many holes in his story for him to be trusted. Keep scrolling below for the full account of what happened and for a look at some of the reactions. 

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  • "[Am I wrong] for reporting my fiancé missing after he went out at 10pm for deodorant and disappeared for 7 hours?"

    A young couple lies in bed at night. The man is texting discreetly on his phone.
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  • The funniest part of this man's so-called “story” is the idea that he ran into a bunch of buds to watch “the game.” What game starts at 10:00 PM, sir? Perhaps it's the game of infidelity. Not to mention, the line he fed about the fact that his phone ran out of battery is also dubious. If you were at your friend's home, why wouldn't you ask for a charger? This man is a pathetic liar!

  • My (30F) fiancé (33M) went out on Saturday night to the store for a couple things he needed (l.e. deodorant) around 10pm while I stayed home with our kid (2F). He told me he was making a quick run to the store and would be right back.
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  • He borrowed my car and left and I thought nothing of it. Fast forward to midnight and he's still not back. I sent him texts and called but he didn't answer. At 1am I got really worried and called my mom to come help me search for him while I had my sister look after our kid.
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  • My mom and I drove around for hours searching the parking lots of the stores, the gym and the downtown bars then I called 3 local hospitals to see if he had been admitted then called the police to see if he'd been arrested but we couldn't find him anywhere.
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  • At this point I'm really starting to freak out because it seems like he's just disappeared, it's dark out and what if he got into an accident and no one saw or has found his car yet? I keep trying to message him but still got no response.
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  • Around 3am I end up going back home and talked it over with my mom, this is when I decide to call the police and report him as a missing person. You don't actually have to wait 24 hours like the tv would lead you to believe.
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  • Around 5am the cops come to the house and I tell them what's going on, they do a search of the house just to make sure everything's good here and as they finish searching my fiancé pulls up.
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  • At this point I'm relieved he is safe but also annoyed that he is seemingly fine and has just ignored me for the last 7 hours.
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  • He tells the cops that while he was buying deodorant he ran into some friends then decided to go to the bar and watch the game with them then went back to their place and hang out and he didn't realize how late it got because his phone d d so he didn't know anyone was trying to contact him. The cops left and didn't end up filing anything since he wasn't missing anymore.
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  • I don't understand how he couldn't send a text before he went to the bar telling me he'd be out for a while and not to wait up? Like did his phone di the instant they asked him to go to the bar? Did they not have a charger at their house he could have used to charge his phone and send me a text?
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  • He was annoyed that I called the cops and said I was overreacting and he didn't have to let me know his whereabouts 24/7. Which is true, but I still feel annoyed that I spent all night worrying and neither me, my mom or my sister
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  • got much sleep. I was kind of upset with him all day but mostly tired, this isn't the first time he's changed up his schedule to where it affected me without telling me so I should have known not to react that extreme.
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  • I just don't know anymore if I overacted and if I should apologize and accept the fact that I can't control everything. So, AITA for reporting him as a missing person?
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  • AmpleSnacks • 3h ago NTA and he was cheating on you.
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  • MaeSilver909. 3h ago NTA. Seriously doubt he met some friends buying deodorant @10pm & left to watch a game. Like what game is on at 10pm? He's cheating.
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  • petallist 3h ago NTA and he was cheating. Do not marry this man.
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