19-year-old college student gets even with loud roommate for always having friends over on weeknights by changing the WiFi password without telling her 'OMG, the WiFi isn't working!'

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  • A group of young people play video games at night on a couch.
  • "[Am I wrong] for changing the WiFi password and not telling my roommate?"

    hey guyss, so My (19F) roommate let's call her C (20F) and I have been living together for about 8 months. At first it was fine, but lately it's become unbearable. She's one of those people who CONSTANTLY has things going on.
  • She has people over. Constantly. It's not just a few friends on a Friday, it's like 4-6 people almost every night of the week. They're loud, they take over the living room, and they eat my food. I've
  • come home to find my entire fridge raided and gone more than once. I'm not a hermit, but I value my peace and quiet, especially after classes. I basically just hide in my room with my headphones on.
  • I've tried talking to her about it three times. I was polite at first, then more direct. Each time she gets super apologetic, says. "you're right, I'll tone it down,"
  • and then nothing changes. Last week I even left a note on the fridge asking her to please not have people over after 10pm on weeknights. She texted me "ok got it!!" and then that very night had a bunch of people over until 1am.
  • Last night was the final straw. She was having another one of her "movie nights" and there were like 8 people here. They were being so loud I could hear
  • them over my game. I went out to get a glass of water and one of her guy friends was trying to figure out how to use my expensive coffee machine that I specifically told her not to touch. I just lost it.
  • I went back to my room, logged into the router settings, and changed the WiFi password. It's like 20 characters long, so she'll never guess it in a million years.
  • Literally two minutes later I hear a bunch of "omg the wifi isn't working!!" from the living room. C comes and knocks on my door,
  • A young woman argues with a man on the couch.
  • asks if the internet is down for me too. I just said "Nope, works fine for me." She asked what the password was and I told her I changed it. She just stared at me
  • and then asked why. I told her the internet is for residents, not her friend circle, and that I was tired of it all.
  • She got FURIOUS. Said I was being a psycho, passive- aggressive, and controlling. I said I was being effective since talking didn't work. She and her friends
  • all went off to another house, but since then she's giving me the silent treatment. She texted me that I'm a huge b and that I'm making her living situation "hostile."
  • A part of me feels bad, but honestly, I just wanted my apartment back. I pay for half the internet, I should be able to use it in peace. So, AITA?
  • A group of young people lounging in a living room.

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