‘He showed up in… a fedora!’: 20+ women share real-life reasons why they walked out on a date

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  • "What’s the biggest ick you’ve ever had on a date?"

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  • anxious_dwarf I went on a date with a literal police officer who told me that multiculturalism doesn't work, and that women shouldn't be allowed to take leadership roles or fight in the army because their periods affect their emotions. When I disagreed with him he said 'I didn't expect you to be so political.'
  • brittanydude He gave me a sample of his beatboxing skills at the table. I did not ask for the sample.
  • fake_tan He told me my scarf color didn't go with my skin tone. Then he proceeded to lecture me, loudly, on the history of cholera.
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  • Sophiede Rie The entire night we were just talking about him, his past relationships and his family business
  • Affectionate Law1287 He....meowed and patted my hand. Like a cat? He said he liked to give "cat pets." I am not much of a cat person. And even less of a guy acting like a cat person. Oof. The moment was so off putting cringe I had trouble typing it out. This was a first date.
  • Serendipitas Went out once with someone who had abysmal table manners. Like, so bad I thought, OK, you are overemphasizing your chewing intentionally for some reason, right? Nope. That was just his normal. Never saw anyone cut into their food with such intensity the entire table shakes and water glasses spill.
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  • gimmemyjjajiangmyeon Bro asked me if we can sit side by side because it would be awkward if we sit face to face and look at each others faces...
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  • No_mans_time That one guy was so eager to get me on a date, but did not even want to know anything about me. He only stared at my breasts while talking and talking and talking about himself. He did not even recognize that I did not say something :D My friends were at a bar nearby so I said goodbye and joined them. He messaged me I'd be the woman of his dreams - and I answered "why?" He could not answer :D
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  • aggressively_baked A guy took me to Olive Garden and on the way remarked, sorry my car is dirty my mom didn't have time to clean it. Like dude you're 30 clean your own car.
  • cirivere Trying to figure out what interests and hobbies he had. Basically he just picked a generic study course with finances because it seemed a safe option, didn't enjoy any sports or crafts or video games, but did watch netflix series. It was like I was pulling teeth to get any conversations and getting to know him going. Edit: as for the netflix series, he just picked whatever was trending but no specific genre interested him
  • bluefootedboob He smelled like a dirty hamster cage and farts. And was condescending. Another one told me was a cop and straight edge. Another had really weird feet and toes. Had a third date with someone where we did dinner and a movie at his place. It was obvious he expected to get laid but I wasn't feeling it so went home - he told me on the way to my car if we watched another movie we were in fact having sex first. Another couldn't get off his phone and pounded 6 drinks in 90 minutes.
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  • IndividualSecurity94 Went on a first (and only) date with a man who volunteered, unsolicited, that he was banned from Uber because he was using Uber pool to hit on the poor unsuspecting women sharing a ride with him. On multiple occasions. And he still didn't understand why it was such a big deal.
  • glr09209 He blasted his music really loud in his car. Every time I would try and talk to him. he'd turn the volume down for a second to respond and then turn it back up again. Worst part is that the songs were his own songs. Our first and only date.
  • According-Cover-4596 Guy took me to chipotle and paid with a gift card and said I was lucky he had a gift card or I'd be paying for myself
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  • cattyb1 Texted his mom throughout the first date and even answered a call from her (it wasn't a medical emergency). Needless to say I made an excuse to leave after one drink
  • eatbuttsdingdong One of my friends set me up on a blind date with a guy she knew. He showed up to dinner in a white cut-off sleeve (that he had done himself judging by the haphazard lines) t-shirt that had stains all over it. And he brought me a ziploc bag of his "mama's famous frog legs". Needless to say, there was no second date.
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  • channelka He was telling me about his siblings, and out of nowhere, he added, "I dont think there is such a thing as marital rape." There was no second date. This was 10am at a coffee shop.
  • nothoughtsnosleep He showed up in knee-length, Hawaiian print bermuda shorts, a button down black and white checkered print shirt, and a fedora. Bro.
  • cancerbabyyx I was reapplying my lipgloss after dinner and he asked me if he could smell it. So I gave him my lipgloss and he LICKED THE APPLICATOR
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