'[I] didn't realise it was that big of a deal': Neighbor accuses dog owner of being insensitive to community after they bring two big doggos trick-or-treating with their kids on Halloween

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    Am [I wrong] for bringing my dogs trick-or-treating?

    Two dogs in ghost costumes on a front porch including 'I felt embarrassed being yelled at in front of my kids'
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    I went trick-or- treating with my two kids (ages 4 and 7) and brought the two dogs (both chocolate labs) along with me.
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    I decided to bring them along because they were needing their daily walks (having been cooped up inside the whole day) and they love exploring new places and scents as they're quite social animals.
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    They were on a leash the entire time and are well trained. I wouldn't bring them right up to people's doors, I'd stand off to the side and let them sniff around the garden while still keeping an eye on my kids.
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    The vast majority of people were fine with it, many kids came up wanting to pet them and nobody said anything
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    I would come up to the doors with them but would hang back a few feet to make sure that the dogs weren't able to reach the homeowners or front door.
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    Dog in a Halloween costume
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    I brought doggy bags with me and cleaned up. their poop as expected. At one house, however, the home owner yelled at me and told me to get off his property (that's the PG version), at which point I quickly obliged and retreated.
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    Was I TA here? Did I really do anything wrong? I felt embarrassed being yelled at in front of my kids tbh but didn't realise it was that big of a deal.
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    HollyGoLately You let your dogs sniff around people's gardens just so you didn't have to go out again for their walk? Soft YTA, not everyone is a dog lover, and not everyone wants random dogs sniffing round their gardens. Take it from a dog lover that owns a dog, this wasn't the best choice. It doesn't matter how good your dogs are, not everyone is going to want them on their property.
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    Sufficient-Produce85 As a dog owner I'm going to say YTA. You brought 2 large (though lovable) dogs into a situation that is child centric. Many children are scared of dogs. And though your dogs might be perfect angels, a walk among screaming, chaotic kids in costumes could be too much. It was random an adult grumped at you but they can be scared of dogs too. Walk them before or after trick or treating.
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    French bulldgo in a Halloween costume
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    iamonewiththecheese Correction the vast majority didn't bother saying anything to you; but you annoyed a lot more people than you realize with your dogs. Unless it's a service animal; there is no need to bring your dogs on leashes around with you - clogging up the already congested sidewalks; scaring some of the kids; and peeing and pooping all of the place (even if you clean it). It would not have killed you to take an extra walk that day with your dogs outside of trick-or-treat hours. YTA.
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    YTA Disastrous-Nail-640 You don't know who has allergies, is afraid of dogs, or just doesn't like dogs.
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    YTA Jessie Colt I say this as a life long dog owner, do not take your dogs up to someone's house if you do not both know them and have prior permission. You have no idea if the people might be scared of dogs, or allergic, or have their own dogs or other pets that might be reactive to strange dogs, or they just hate dogs in general and not want them on their property. Just standing back away from the actual door doesn't matter. If you walk a dog during trick or treating, stay on the sidewalk or n
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    Old_Inevitable8553 Kinda YTA. I say that because even if the dogs were on leashes, you were still letting them onto someone else's property, sniffing in areas that they had no business in and it seems that they were going potty at some points. Even if you brought doggy bags to clean up after them, that's not cool. Because I for one do not want to walk into my yard and then find out that someone let their dog use it as a toilet. I've certainly fussed at my own neighbor plenty of times for the sam
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    firefly-dreamin YTA I love dogs and have 3 of my own... who would absolutely go nuts barking if some random person brought their dogs into my yard. Just walk the dogs separately.
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    Marsupial-Old Took my kids out today and several dogs were out walking up to the kids and trying to get in the candy buckets, sniffing around the kids, and peeing right in front of everybody (so close to the point I'm sure some of those kids got some splash back). This was in a very crowded suburban neighborhood. 2/3 of my kids are terrified of dogs from past experiences and this was a pita. I'm also not a pet person in general, but for me, yta
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    maidofatoms YTA. You don't get to take your dogs onto other people's property and shit in their gardens. I don't care if you cleaned it up, unless you'd be happy sitting your ass right down on that bit of grass where your dog just shat, it's not really clean, is it? Let kids enjoy Halloween without having to dodge your dogs. Many people are scared of dogs, and Halloween is supposed to be fun- scary not scary-scary.
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    Calista 189 I wouldn't be surprised if this is common in the burbs I guess (I'm in the city and I've never seen anyone bring a dog to apt trick or treating) but it does sound kind of inconsiderate. Big dogs can be scary to kids bc they're almost the same size as them (or bigger!) and Halloween is a time when kids of all ages are out and about within a relatively short period of time. As nice as labs are, going from house to house with two large dogs can likely impose stress on at least some of t

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