Adult step children “temporarily” move in with dad and step-mom, 2 years later they reveal their lazy entitled nature, so step-mom decides to evict them, sell the house, and move into an RV: ‘The entitlement!’

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Elna McHilderson • Managing Editor
Nov 18, 2025 7:00 PM EST

Every family is different, with different dramas and issues. Who are we to judge how someone handles their own unique journey? Well, what if you married someone much older than you who had kids around your age and now they've moved in with you and are mooching off of you? Well, that's exactly what happened to this woman. She seems very in love and supportive of her older husband who is 21 years older than her. His eldest daughter is the same age as her and decided that what's their's is also her's. So she moved in, and shortly after, the rest of his adult children moved in. 

 

He is a sweet man and just wants the best for his kids, but now they are adults and spoiled rotten. They have wrecked the house, don't have jobs, and constantly ask for money. The step-mom has had it. So, she's decided to evict the "kids," sell the house, and have her and her husband move into a nice RV Camper. Then, they not only rid themselves of the mooching adult children, they can also start saving up for retirement. However, the adult children still do not have their life together, even with the impending eviction. What would you do?

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  • "AITA For selling our home to move into a camper to get my step kids and step grandkids out of my house?"

    Adult step children “temporarily” move in with dad and step-mom, 2 years later they reveal their lazy entitled nature, so step-mom decides to evict them, sell the house, and move into an RV: ‘The entitlement!’
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  • Myself (41F) and my husband (62M), have been together for 10 years and married for 7 years. We met at work and fell in love!
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  • We bought our home 10 years ago. 3 years ago, his oldest daughter (same age as me), wanted to move in with us from another state to start fresh.
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  • There are much better opportunities where we live versus where she was living. I agreed, but let her know that this was temporary.
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  • 6 months later, his middle daughter was evicted. She is 2 years younger than me. She has 2 kids, (14F and 17M) at the time.
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  • My husband and I travel together for work, so we're almost never home. He let them move in, without talking to me, but I had already guessed it was going to happen.
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  • So, when we went home, I also let her know, that this was temporary. 2 years after the oldest daughter moved in, I had to kick her out.
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  • She had moved her boyfriend into my home without talking to me. She didn't have a vehicle and was using my car, until I bought her a car.
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  • The middle daughter was using my husband's truck but couldn't afford the gas, so I bought her a cheap used car.
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  • The only thing we've asked of them is to pay the light bill and keep the grass cut.
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  • Adult step children “temporarily” move in with dad and step-mom, 2 years later they reveal their lazy entitled nature, so step-mom decides to evict them, sell the house, and move into an RV: ‘The entitlement!’
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  • She must've known what she was signing up for when she married this much older man who had kids the same age as her, right? Or perhaps live really does blind you…

  • My power has been shut off twice. We have to take care of the lawn every time we go home, and the house is always in disarray.
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  • 2 tvs were broken, my dining room rug and living room rug have vanished. The charger to my vacuum cleaner got up and left the house.
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  • They've adopted a dog and 2 cats that stay indoors without asking us. They constantly ask my husband and I for money.
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  • The now 20 year old grandson, doesn't have a driver's license, a GED or diploma, no job, and all he wants to do is play on his Playstation and smoke (trees).
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  • My husband lost his mom and dad within a year of each other, then a brother very recently.
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  • All of his family lives out of state (the same state they moved from), I told him this is the perfect opportunity to move back home and sell our home.
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  • We have a nice camper, and will be living on his sister's property so that we can help her out.
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  • This will also allow us to be debt free and invest more into his impending retirement.
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  • The house will be on the market by Jan 1st, it is mid November and they still don't have anywhere to go.
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  • AITA for not helping them find somewhere to go?
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