Entitled bridesmaid invites her sister to her friend's wedding unprompted then backs out, bride disinvites the sister: 'Now Stacy doesn’t talk to me anymore'

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  • Wedding invitation for "Katie and Ryan"
  • "My Bridesmaid RSVP’d Herself, Her Husband, AND Her Sister… Then Didn’t Come"

    We had a large wedding this fall and had to be very specific with our guest list because of space limits. One of my bridesmaids,
  • Stacy, told me her husband would be out of town for our wedding and asked if she could bring her sister instead. I've met her sister but we're not close.
  • Since it was an adult for an adult swap and we allotted two spots, we said sure and updated our online RSVP platform with her sister's name.
  • A few weeks later we get their RSVP and all three of them RSVP'd yes. I asked Stacy if it was a mistake and she said "Good news! My husband can come now, so all three of us will be there yay"
  • My husband and I hate drama and since a few guests had already RSVP'd no, we let it slide. In hindsight, we should have shut it down.
  • Fast forward to a month and a half before the wedding, Stacy tells me she's not sure she can come anymore because of how she might be feeling in her pregnancy. Totally fine - her call.
  • I told her I support whatever decision she makes, but we did need final numbers soon.
  • She said, "Okay ya I'm probably not coming, but my sister can still go. She will represent us."
  • I had to tell her straight up that her sister was never on the original guest list. I don't know her that well, and she won't know
  • anyone, and I don't feel comfortable having her there by herself. So I told Stacy I'm going to put all three of them as a no.
  • And now Stacy doesn't talk to me anymore. How did we go from a simple guest swap to "my sister is going in our place to represent us" to cutting contact lmao. The audacity is wild.
  • rickyrobs860 • 15h ago Stacy is out of her mind.
  • elln_Damnation • 15h ago I see their absence as a win in the long run.
  • Longjumping-Sol... • 14h ago "but my sister can still go. She will represent us." What does she think she is, a small European country?
  • PearGlum1966 · 15h ago . That would be so strange. If I were the sister, I wouldn't want to come. It would be the most awkward of weddings to be on your own and know no one. Weird!
  • RobynNeonGal 15h ago • Weird! Why would her sister still go?? That makes no sense. She's not close to the couple. And why would she want to go to a wedding she has no connection to anymore? Free meal? Lol.

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