Employee refuses to translate coworker's personal documents after she finds out they speak a second language, coworker complains to manager: ‘She showed up at my desk with papers’ 

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  • Woman in a Black Shirt Throwing Papers
  • Coworker decided my second language is part of my job description

    I 29F work in a pretty normal office in the US. My actual job is boring data stuff, nothing to do with languages.
  • I just happen to speak my parents language fluently. I keep that pretty quiet at work, becuase every time someone finds out they instantly joke about "free translator".
  • Spoiler: my coworker S 34F did not think it was a joke. It started small. S overheard me on the phone with my mom and got very excited that I speak another language.
  • A week later she brought me a short email her husband needed to send for his side business and asked if I could "just glance at it".
  • Took two minutes, I didnt mind. Then came a longer contract. Then a whole product page for their website.
  • She would show up at my desk with papers already in a neat pile and say things like "ok, only a few paragraphs this time" and stand there waiting.
  • I finally told her that this is not part of my job and that professional translation is a real service people charge money for.
  • She rolled her eyes and said I am being selfish with a "gift that costs you nothing".
  • Two Women Doing Their Paperwork
  • Next day I get an email from my manager asking why I refuse to "support the team".
  • Turns out S told him I agreed to handle "our international communications". Our. As in the company.
  • I had to explain that no, she has been bringing me documents for her husbands side hustle that has zero connection to our employer.
  • When my manager pushed back on her, S actually got offended and said I had embarrassed her family by "making a big deal out of helping".
  • She has stopped talking to me unless she needs something and tells people I am rude about my culture.
  • All becuase I dont want to be a free full time translator for a business | dont work for.
  • Glittering-Data-8801 She got offended by you calling her out with her lies. She would have used you forever, until you stopped it. Good call. I'm sure her boss will no longer trust her with any complaint she lodges.
  • Fun_Organization3857 She knows that's a paid service. She just wants to be cheap.
  • Competitive_Law1032 Reminds me of people who try to get free service from people who love to sew/crochet/bake, etc. "isn't this something you love to do anyway?" Cheap ass grifters
  • False Ostrich7247 Do they have an HR dept? Becuase this is hostile workplace kind of stuff.
  • TheQuarantinian I would have replied to the manager, cc'ing the coworker and HR "Coworker has been asking me to provide free translation services to support an unrelated family business. When I declined she complained to the manager, misrepsenting the situation, resulting in my manager reprimanding me for not supporting the team, taking coworker's complaint at face value and making no effort to obtain details first. I feel that this has created a hostile environment and is making me uncomfortabl
  • Velvetsparkk She got called out then get mad
  • BlueberryBlushes I feel this. You're not being rude you're just protecting your time. Free translation isn't your job, and it's okay to say no

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