29-year-old sister, evicted three times, demands moving into sibling’s home rent-free with her six cats, and wants her sibling’s dog gone: ‘I told her no, She LOST HER MIND’

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Etai Eshet • Editor
Dec 17, 2025 5:00 PM EST

Sister's eviction number three doesn't have much charm left in it when a 29-year-old serial chaos machine tries to move herself and six cats into a working household and starts by firing the dog.  

Nothing about this is a cry for help, it's a list of demands. No rent. Free food. Free litter. Free vet bills. Free phone. Free gas money despite the hosts not even having a car. A parking spot for an elderly vehicle, she might fix someday. And on top of all that, she wants the five-year-old resident dog rehomed because her cats allegedly do not vibe. That isn't a suggestion, that is a hostage note written in cat hair.  

Everyone loves to yell Family helps family, but nobody wants to talk about what happened last time. Eight months of freeloading. No money. A wrecked apartment. Smell damage. Zero effort to get stable. Three evictions in four years is not an oops, it is a pattern, and somehow the person with a job, a lease, and a functioning routine is supposed to light it all on fire for a repeat performance.  

And that's why saying no to that is not cruel, it's just the bare minimum.

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  • AITA for refusing to let my sister move in after she got evicted for the third time

    Happy couple sitting on the floor of a sunlit living room laughing as their large dog jumps up toward them, with a bold text overlay about an unexpected living arrangement, capturing a candid domestic moment with pets: "She just straight up TELLS me she's moving in with me and my partner"
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  • So my sister just got evicted. Again. AGAIN. This is the third fucking time in four years.
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  • This time it was because she had six cats in her apartment when her lease specifically said two pets
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  • Landlord did an inspection or whatever and found out. Kicked her out. Apparently the place was absolutely destroyed and smelled like actual hell.
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  • She calls me yesterday and doesn't even ask just straight up TELLS me she's moving in with me and my partner.
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  • Like it's already decided. Just informing me of the plan. Then she starts going through her list of what she expects from us and I swear to god I thought she was joking at first.
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  • No rent. Obviously. We need to pay for ALL the food and litter and vet bills for her six cats.
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  • Pay her phone bill because hers got shut off for not paying it. Give her gas money every week even though we don't even have a fucking car we take the bus everywhere.
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  • She wants one of our two parking spots for her car that doesn't even run but she swears she's gonna fix it soon.
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  • And THEN. Then she says we need to get rid of our dog. Our dog that we've had for FIVE YEARS.
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  • Because her cats don't like dogs. I literally laughed in her face because what the actual fuck?
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  • You want me to rehome MY dog in MY apartment so YOU can move in with your six cats that you clearly cannot take care of for FREE?
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  • I told her no. Hell no. She can rehome some of the cats get a job and find her own place.
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  • She LOST HER MIND. Started screaming at me that I'm abandoning her. That I'm a terrible sister.
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  • That she's gonna be homeless and it's all my fault because I won't help her. Now she's all over Facebook posting about how heartless I am.
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  • Tagging me in posts. Messaging my friends trying to get them on her side. And of course I get a call from our mom guilt tripping me about how family is supposed to help each other.
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  • How I should just let her stay for a few months to get back on her feet.
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  • Except the LAST TIME she "stayed for a few months" it turned into EIGHT MONTHS of her living completely rent free eating our food using our utilities and she absolutely trashed our place.
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  • It took weeks to get the smell out after she finally left. She didn't contribute a single dollar to anything.
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  • She's 29 years old. TWENTY NINE. She can't keep a job for more than like three months before she either quits or gets fired.
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  • She's been evicted three times because she refuses to follow basic apartment rules. But somehow everyone acts like I'm supposed to just fix all her problems for her.
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  • The audacity of demanding I get rid of my pet so she can move in her hoard of cats is genuinely making me lose my mind.
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  • АІТАН?
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  • Ancient-Studio6819 NTA she literally wants you to get rid of YOUR pet in YOUR home so she can freeload with six animals she got evicted for having. She's almost 30 and has never faced consequences for anything because family keeps bailing her out.
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  • OP Front_Situation3943 right???? I kept asking my fam why they couldn't even think about this fact.
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  • OldGmaw2023 She can go home to mommy No is a complete sentence Sometimes you have to burn that bridge
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  • NTA mpurdey12 If your Mom believes that "family is supposed to help each other", then she can let your sister move in with her.
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  • NTA !gif blondeheartedgoddess Mom can let her move in with her six cats that she can't support. Mom can let her use Mom's car, mom can pay for this terminal case of arrested development because A. She's the mother that created that monster. B. You took your turn before and C. It's not your responsibility to house and support a being you had no involvement in creating or raising. That was all Mom's doing. Make sure nobody has a spare key, otherwise you'll come home one day and your sister will al
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  • Giltar This can't be real.....
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  • Chihayaburu8 Why can't she stay with her mom, since her mom is very sympathetic to her plight?
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  • SecretOscarOG This has gotta be Al. It hits all the benchmarks. "She just tells me shes moving in as if its decided" "Guilt tripping mom" who is also unwilling to do anything themselves "Tagging me in Facebook posts" "Tells me I need to rehome my dog" If this is real its a shock
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  • CalamityJayne247 Google "KOA campgrounds near me." And give her a 6 man tent.
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  • Snoo79474 Your mom should help her and let her live there. NTA
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  • NTA enomisyeh If family is supposed to "help each other out" then mum can come pick up her daughter and let her move in with her
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