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Out of all the redflags out there, perhaps she dodged a bullet by avoiding a man who would put something spreadable above a potential relationship!
That's one way to make a person feel insecure: tell them the only reason you won't date them is based on something they have absolutely no control over…The saddest part was that she felt the need to justify her allergy to him, telling him all the safety measures they could easily put in place to avoid putting her in any danger…Although he simply was not up for hearing it…But why?
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AITAH for cancelling a third date over a peanut allergy?
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Wait…does he actually have a point? Maybe they aren’t as compatible as we thought. Does refusing to change your diet, habits, or even your pet’s routines to fit someone else make you a bad person? No, it just means you have boundaries you’re not willing to compromise, and maybe that’s okay.
In his mind, could changing yourself over something as simple as a nut be a slippery slope, leading him to give up more of the things he loves in the future to make others happy? Perhaps ending things honestly on the third date is the best way to avoid wasting both of their time.
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Man cancels third lunch date with woman over her extreme peanut allergy, says he is unwilling to give up peanuts for her, despite their blossoming connection, she claims he's being immature: 'I love peanuts and eat them all the time'
Should breaking up with someone over an extreme allergy be considered judgmental…or boundary-setting?
Imagine going out with someone who's practically 'perfect on paper.' They're funny, polite, and have that sort of sparkle in their eye that could hypnotize an entire crowd into doing whatever they say. By the second date, you're already opening up to them as if they were an eager book club member, flipping through the pages of your life story. You're spilling silly facts, silly memories, and yep…even sillier jokes to add to the table convo…as you begin to wonder, could this be the face who stands at the end of the aisle, or who reads The Gruffalo to our kids before bed….No, no, shake it off, 'I'm getting ahead of myself', you remind your overly ambitious self!
But as you're spilling facts, you notice his whole demeanor changes as you bring up your extreme peanut allergy…Sure, talks of marriage and kids didn't scare him off…but mention of a nutritious legume will certainly do the trick. Typical men, getting the ick when you least expect it! Suddenly, you're trying to confirm your third date, and instead of following through with the arrangement, he's expressing how he couldn't see himself dating a woman who's allergic to peanuts…Proving that his desire for nuts will always outweigh his desire for an exciting, healthy relationship!…Okay…
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