Boyfriend eats his girlfriend's $70 steak leftovers from their Valentine's Day dinner, smashes an onion on his head when she confronts him: 'I wish I hadn't paid $70 for dinner just for mine to be eaten.'

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Emmy Pratt • Senior Editor
Feb 16, 2026 2:00 PM EST

She bought her own steak on Valentine's Day, and her boyfriend ate it. She deserves so much better.

You shouldn't eat anyone's leftovers without permission; that's just common sense. We all know people who put their leftovers in Tupperware, let them sit for a week, and throw them away long after they go bad. It can be frustrating to stand idly by and watch someone else waste their food. Your only options are to let them do it or ask if you can have their leftovers before they go bad. The latter option isn't the worst idea in the world, especially if they're pretty type B and don't think twice about their leftovers. The only wrong answer is to eat their leftovers without asking first. Even if you don't think they will notice that they're missing, it's still stealing, and stealing is wrong. 

You would think that if anyone would respect your food, it would be your romantic partner. Sometimes boyfriends and girlfriends seem to morph into one person, having a "what's mine is yours" attitude. After all, it's pretty unromantic to be arguing about whose mustard is whose. If you're interrogating your girlfriend about whether she used your mustard, y'all probably should break up. But ingredients are totally different than leftovers, especially leftovers from a nice restaurant. If your girlfriend didn't finish her Valentine's Day steak dinner that she paid for, you shouldn't eat it under any circumstances. Even if you are starving and there's nothing else in the fridge. 

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  • The boyfriend in this story is a real menace. He didn't pay for his girlfriend's dinner on Valentine's Day, and he ate most of her steak when she brought it home in a doggy bag. He claims he thought he only ate a couple of bites, but that's obviously untrue. 

  • Am I wrong for being upset at my boyfriend for eating my Valentine's Day steak dinner leftovers?

    I took my boyfriend out to dinner for Valentine's Day last night. We got steak. We each had our own meal.
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  • He ate all of his, and I brought most of mine home. I get full very easily.
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  • Now for the issue at hand. Tonight I found out that he ate my steak, all of it.
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  • He didn't ask. He said he was sorry and that he didn't realize he ate all of it, he only meant to take a few bites, I guess.
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  • But I wasn't sastified with that, I'm audhd so it was brewing in my head for about 10 minutes while I cooked dinner tonight, and I finally snapped at him and said I wish I hadn't paid $70 for dinner just for mine to be eaten.
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  • He got very defensive and smashed an onion violently into his head; he has anger issues.
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  • I've had them too, I understand them, and he's working on his. But he said I must be doing it just to stir the pot and make s more interesting or something by creating arguments with him.
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  • I just wanted him to figure out a way to make it up to me, that's all.
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  • Teamtunafish NTA. He knew famn well what he was doing and didn't care.
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  • Beneficial_Test_5917 NTA. (Even though he "smashed an onion violently into his head" to deal with his anger issues. Anger management classes certainly have changed.) Rethink this relationship. You are not his priority.
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  • Head_Bed1250 He, at the VERY least, owes you a new steak. NTA
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  • NYCStoryteller NTA. Venmo request $70. He absolutely DID know he didn't just have a few bites. Let him know that you aren't picking a fight or trying to make s "interesting" and you expect him to make it right. Also, consider raising the bar on what you want in a partner, because someone who gets defensive and then does a visualization exercise of smashing an onion to try to control their anger seems like an unsafe person.
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  • MarcieBoku Just break up with him. He sounds terrible
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  • Super-Link-9800 I'm going to need more information on the "smashing an onion violently into his head”.
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  • shammy_dammy NTA. He knew what he was doing. He just didn't care.
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  • No-Examination-4850 oof your boyfriend I'm sorry your ex-boyfriend seems absolutely demented babe an onion on his head? him being disgusting is supposed to make s more interesting?? please get away from this man EW like straight up girl have some self-respect
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