'Their cash cow is gone': Mom of 2-year-old gives $50k to family-in-law before kicking them out of her home

You never want to think that someone is mooching off you, but sometimes the writing's on the wall.

This person is the best partner a man could have when it comes to finances. She's told it all here in her story as she looks for advice — she spent 6 years paying every bill for her husband, in addition to supporting his family. Tens of thousands of dollars were spent keeping her hubby and his parents afloat.

But, this woman slowly realized over time that she was being overly generous to people who weren't exactly appreciative of it. Instead, they just wanted more and more from her, until one shocking moment became the final straw.

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Mom looks at finances on computer while toddler pouts by her side.
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AITJ for telling my family I'm done for being their financial safety net?

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This Mom was truly generous with her money. If you have a good income, it is a wonderful feeling to help out the family members around you. You see that your life changes from that high salary, and you're thrilled to improve the lives of your own kin. But, as this person learned the hard way, sometimes money matters and family members just don't mix. It seems so simple — give money to other people to make their problems disappear — and yet, it's just never, ever enough to satisfy them.
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Family dines together.
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This is the part that'll make your jaw drop

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She's paying bills for everyone.
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Yikes...

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She's trying to save face, and the math is just not mathing.
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This family is just so impolite

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This Mom has a big heart and a lot of love to give. She's just going to have to find non-financial ways to show love to her extended family… if she ever talks to them again, which is a privilege they'll have to earn back.
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This is rough, too --- the husband should've been witness to this

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Now he's going to have to bridge the divide between his wife and his Mom and siblings, and he wasn't even there to witness the big showdown. He's going to have to listen to both sides and judge for himself.
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Big family dinner outdoors.
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