Young 30-year-old woman trying to live her best 'single girl' life accidentally moves into a duplex where she's sharing a wall with her 70-year-old family friend: 'This situation is a disaster!'

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  • The neighbour isn't the issue but this situation is a disaster
  • I was living in a place with zero soundproofing and ended up moving fairly quickly. I found a semidetached house near by and signed the lease without much thought.
  • Upon telling my mom where I was moving, she said Mary, her 70 year old churchgoing friend, lives. on the same street. She didn't remember the exact address and I just assumed it would be far away as it's a long street.
  • Well that didn't quite work out for me now did it. She's my next door neighbour. Our walls are attached. We share a driveway. Her deck looks into my backyard. I can hear her talking on the phone. I can hear when her TV is on, which it often
  • isn't, meaning she's probably sitting in silence hearing everything I do. She's always home. She's 70. She doesn't have hearing problems. I confirmed with my mom.
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  • I'm in my 30s. I'm dating. I'm having s along the shared bedroom wall at night. White noise machines aren't romantic. I'm thinking about everything she can hear. I'm doing therapy on my stairs as far away from the
  • shared walls. Apparently putting up those expensive felt wall tiles only dampen the sound for me. Should I buy her some AirPods? I need to move again.
  • Thin walls are way more common than people think, and most neighbors just tune it out. If she hasn't said anything, she probably doesn't care nearly as much as you think
  • Safe-... • hace 27 min Neighbor was once young also. She probably ignores it or sleeps thru it.
  • just... • hace 44 min Mary knows your schedule. Mary knows your partner. Mary knows when you're lying. Move.
  • Capt... . hace 41 min Poor woman probably loves living vicariously through you. I say have your S loudly and with gusto! Seriously, live your life dude.
  • uwis... • hace 29 min Mary is probably jealous.
  • BidR... . hace 45 min I'm 61 and I wouldn't know what to do with airpods. I don't know that asking your neighbor to wear some kind of noise canceling
  • headphones is reasonable, esp if they've been living there a long time and someone moves in and asks them to wear airpods b/c they are going to haves, etc. You
  • may, indeed, have to move. This is why I refuse to share walls/floor/ceiling ever again. You can hear everything from all the other units.
  • Alien... . hace 46 min I saw a documentary about a situation like yours. Lonely old lady overhearing s sounds, comes to investigate.

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