23-year-old babysitter selflessly provides $400 worth of free childcare for her brother every month, then backpedals when he insults her side hustle: 'Pay for it or find someone else'

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  • AITJ for charging my brother for babysitting after he said "it's not a real job"?
  • My brother (32M) has two kids ages 4 and 6. I'm (23F) a full-time student who babysits on the side for money.
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  • For the past year I've been watching his kids 2-3 times a week for FREE as a favor. We're talking 4-5 hour
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  • stretches where I'm feeding them, playing with them, helping with homework, the whole thing.
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  • Last week at family dinner my brother made a comment about how I need to "get a real job" instead of "playing with kids for money." He said babysitting isn't real work.
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  • I was ped. I've been giving him FREE childcare for a year and he's dismissing what I do as not real work?
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  • I told him right there that I'm starting to charge him my regular rate - $20/hour. He laughed and said "You're not serious."
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  • I said I'm completely serious. If what I do isn't real work then he shouldn't need it, right? He got mad and said family doesn't charge family.
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  • I said family also doesn't insult family's work. If he doesn't value what I do enough to respect it, he can pay for it or find someone else.
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  • He's refusing to pay and now my mom is mad at me for "causing drama" and "withholding help from family." She says I'm being petty.
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  • But why should I provide free labor to someone who literally said its not real work? That's over $400 worth of childcare I've been giving him monthly!
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  • TL;DR: Brother said babysitting isn't a real job, I've been watching his kids for free, now I'm charging him and family says I'm being petty.
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  • Aunt happily embracing her nephew after not seeing him for a long time.
  • Zzyren If the mom is trying to guilt you for "withholding help from family" then tell her that she should babysit for free!
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  • Acanthaceae... Tell him you can't babysit for free anymore because you need to devote time to your real paying job. Your brother is a j for taking advantage of you and for insulting you.
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  • Auntienursey This is his FAFO moment. Do not start babysitting again until he apologizes and I'd get money up front because he'll try to stiff you because "family".
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  • Interesting_... dude had the audacity to trash your work while you've been giving him hundreds of dollars in free childcare, now he can pay up or figure out his own situation
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  • tessablackveil NTA. He literally dissed your work, so why would you keep doing it for free? Charging him is fair, he's the one acting like babysitting isn't a real job.
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