Boss pretends employee isn’t getting fired, hands them a “motivational” disciplinary letter, and then asks them to train their own replacement: ‘Task #1 - find a new job’

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  • Woman leaning on her hand while looking at a laptop screen, holding a takeaway coffee in a dimly lit workspace.
  • My boss is pretending she's not going to fire me because she needs me to train my replacement

    In the past month, two of my colleagues were fired from the small family business I work for.
  • They were not family members, and neither am I. In both cases, they had not previously worked in our field and had only been here a few months, yet they were given a huge amount of work to handle, including supervising important accounts with minimal guidance from our manager (the owner's wife).
  • Both were let go after making some not-so- bad beginner mistakes. I just had a formal "disciplinary" meeting with the accountant (my boss was not present).
  • I was told there would be a formal letter outlining the poor quality of my work.
  • However, the letter is supposedly meant "to motivate me," because they don't want to fire me.
  • According to the accountant, my work has improved. I called her out on that and said that if my work had genuinely improved, they wouldn't have had that meeting.
  • Woman sitting at a desk holding her temples while looking at a laptop, with a coffee cup and phone beside her.
  • I asked for examples of what I did wrong. The accountant cited a very general example from the first few months of my job, but my boss hasn't mentioned that issue to me in a long time, so I assumed I had corrected it.
  • When I asked when exactly my performance had improved, the accountant couldn't give a clear answer.
  • She also said my boss won't be meeting with me anytime soon to discuss things further because everyone is too busy (they fired two people without having replacements ready).
  • I asked whether my mistakes had cost the company money or created embarrassing situations with clients, and I was told no.
  • The day after they fired my colleagues earlier this week, two new people started. I've been tasked with training them, and the accountant used that as proof that the company trusts me and wants me to stay.
  • I'm honestly disgusted. This company has a pattern of giving people the workload of two jobs, operating without a real management structure, having no clear roles, and providing no proper training- then acting shocked when people inevitably make mistakes, which in every case have been relatively minor and clearly caused by poor management practices.
  • When I got this job, I realized it has basically been a revolving door for years.
  • I should've taken the hint. The funniest part is that the new employees are already asking me questions, saying they're worried and that the company clearly doesn't have a healthy culture.
  • Edit: My colleagues often complained to me about the management style here, and I worked with one of them on how to improve our job roles at the behest of the owner.
  • Nothing we talked about in the office was unprofessional (mean, insulting, etc.) but it just struck me that these people can't tolerate any criticism and resisted every change I asked for (the big one being weekly staff meetings and regular 1:1 meetings with my manager).
  • The accountant also brought up "chitchat" and told me not to talk to my new colleagues with closed doors....
  • Agreeable_Dark6408 How do you have time to train people and do your own job? Don't train them. Do your own job while you job hunt. Once you get another job, I'd tell these two people exactly what is happening and that they shouldn't expect any different.
  • lancelake_ Original Poster's Reply They want me to delegate work out immediately to the new people....
  • Ok-Nature-5440 Get a new job, before you get fired. Act very secure while you are teaching your replacement the ropes. (knowing she will probably be your replacement.) Don't overshare, don't talk about your job experiences. Just occupy time, while getting a new job. Do not train the new employee, it's not your responsibility. Keep referring her back to management. Look, this isn't deception, it's survival.
  • Fragrant_Spray It's time to get out. BTW, since you were told to train them, any mistakes they make will be blamed on you as well. They're setting you up to fire you for "performance".
  • Think-notlikedasheep Yes. Train your replacement. VERY BADLY. You ARE looking for another job, right? When they ask you why you're looking, say there are rumors of layoffs and you are getting ahead of that.
  • Select_Draw3385 I would refuse to train them. They're going to fire you anyway. "Sorry. That's not on my list of responsibilities." And then ask them why they'd want you to train them, since they're so unhappy with your performance.
  • Igood46 So you are aggressively looking for a new job?
  • rocketmn69_ Find a new job asap. When you're going out the door, warn the new employees that they will be fired sooner than later
  • pwolf1771 Why do you care? Just do the bare minimum and start applying for your new job. This is over it's not personal they just don't value you. Run out the string and find something better...
  • Big Truck_8268 Task #1 - find a new job
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