31-year-old aunt left with surprise babysitting duty at a family party, so she takes her 7-year-old niece home to make a point to her entitled sister: ‘Don’t dump your kid on me and leave’

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  • AITAH for taking my niece home after my sister left her with me at a party & disappeared?
  • I'm 31F & my sister has a habit of treating me like automatic childcare at family events. she'll ask me to watch my 7 year old niece for a a 20-30 minutes or an hour, then disappear for a few.
  • usually i let it go bc i love my niece, but i'm getting really tired of being turned into surprise childcare.
  • last week was our cousin's birthday at a park. i only planned to stay about an hour bc i had work early the next morning.
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  • my sister showed up late, handled me my niece's sweater & juice box & asked me to keep an eye on her for 30 minutes while she was taking care of something at work on the phone.
  • that was around 2:15 by 3:30, i had fed my niece, taken her to the bathroom twice, dealt with a scraped knee & calmed her down after a bounce house meltdown.
  • y sister was nowhere, i called twice & texted once with no answer.
  • then my mom told me my sister had left the park with two friends to get more alc ol.
  • that's when i got really mad. leaving the park is not the same thing as stepping away for a minute.
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  • my niece was tired & wanted to leave. i told my mom i was taking her with me, texted my sister that her daughter was with me & took her back to my apartment. i made
  • her mac & cheese, put on a movie & she was fine. about twenty minutes later, my sister called furious, saying i had no right to take her
  • daughter anywhere without permission & that i scared her when she came back & couldn't find us. i told her maybe next time don't dump your kid on me & leave the park without saying a word.
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  • my mom agrees my sister was wrong, but says i made it worse by taking my niece away instead of waiting there (still she was tired &
  • wanted home badly). my sister is now telling people i used her daughter to make a point.
  • i don't think i did anything unsafe. i think i got stuck babysitting without being asked & took care of a tired kid when her mom disappeared.
  • tillwehavefaces It's okay for her to leave, but not you? And if she wanted to know where you were going she could have picked up the phone. She wasn't scared. She was angry that you didn't do what she wanted. NTA
  • teresajs⚫ NTA Stop taking ANY responsibility for your niece. No more watching her for "20 minutes". None. Your sister can get your Mom to watch her child.
  • Beck943. NTA. I'm guessing your sister is younger than you? Because she's acting immature and entitled as h l
  • GoetheundLotte ⚫ NTA, your sister is horrible and your mother is an enabling moron.
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