Resident refuses to give up her parking spot to neighbor after he lied about needing it for his wheelchair-bound mother: ‘There isn't any sign of his mother'

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  • Elderly woman sitting in a wheelchair.
  • AITA for refusing to give up my parking spot to a neighbor after finding out he lied about needing it?

    I am (34F) currently living in a condominium building where there are assigned parking spots for everyone.
  • My assigned spot is located near the entrance which is important for me since I have an injured knee from before and walking or
  • going up the stairs can be quite tough for me at times. Not long ago, about a month ago a new tenant
  • named Derek (38M) moved into the building a couple doors away from me. After about two weeks Derek knocked at my door saying
  • that he wanted to switch places with me because his mother, who stayed temporarily with him, uses a wheelchair and therefore requires this particular spot.
  • I felt sorry for him and switched my place with his. We went to the building manager and did the switching officially.
  • A “reserved parking” sign on the side of a building.
  • Three weeks later I didn't see any elderly women or a wheelchair. I saw his girlfriend park there on daily basis and once I heard.
  • Derek explaining to another tenant in the hallway that he actually likes this spot more since it is closer to the
  • elevator and the other guy probably won't even notice anything.
  • I was irritated at the time but ignored it for a while. However, last week, my knee really hurt after falling down on the ice, and the additional distance to cover
  • was quite painful. I asked Derek if we could swap places back as there did not seem to be any sign of his mother around. He started
  • being defensive and insisted that a deal is a deal and that I would not be questioning his private affairs. When I pointed out
  • that I have never seen his mother, he got mad and said that I am accusing him of lying, and yes, I probably did.
  • I asked the building manager to change our places back as it was an unfair deal made upon false information. The manager agreed and changed our
  • spots. Derek is now saying others that I backed out of my promise and complicated things, although he was the one
  • lying and doing that in order to gain some advantage.
  • My sister says that I should've left everything as it was because he obviously wanted it more and that I already made my choice, but I do not think so.
  • AITA for taking my spot back?
  • BlockTrue8873 You are absolutely NTA, because reclaiming a parking spot that was stolen from you through malicious fraud is just basic justice. Your
  • contract was nullified the second his "wheelchair-bound mother" turned out to be a total lie, so take care of your knee and let him cry about it.
  • mimos_al NTA. Derek sounds like a piece of work. Just cease any contact with him unless it's necessary.
  • Secret_Host5425 NTA. An agreement made on false pretenses is not binding!

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