26-year-old employee was told by a boss that he has to have a doctor's note to miss work when he's sick, so he started to get 4 days' rest instead: 'They can give me the 1 or 2 days I ask for, or they can give me the week the doc gives me.'

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  • I (26M) don't like calling in to work. I hate passing up money and I usually won't call in unless I'm already pretty sick. I work in the service industry which as many of you know, is absolutely notorious for guilting sick employees (a seriously ill person has made your food at a restaurant before at the direction of their manager, guaranteed) and telling people they don't provide health insurance that they need a doctors note to call in. One year I got sick and didn't
  • A sick man blowing his nose with a napkin. Representation.
  • want to work, and my employer forgot I had health insurance through my Dad. I called in asking for one day off because | could hardly breathe or stay awake and I got the "WEIL you Need A docToRs Note Or Its aN uNeXsCuSeD aBsEnCe" and as someone who worked hard as h_l for these people even when I was sick, I was a little offended to basically be called a liar like I needed to prove to them I'd been wearing a mask at work for a reason. But I did have good
  • insurance through my Dad, so I went to the doctor, had them write me a note for four days off, and went back into my job and handed it to my manager and said "here is my doctors note, and this is the date I will be back". And when they tried to do the same thing a few months later, I got a note for even more days and asked the doc to add a note about when I would stop being infectious around the food we were serving people. I have never been asked for a doctors note
  • when I am sick again. They know they can give me the one or two days I ask for or they can give me the week the doc gives me. But I will not be working while sick if I do not want to.
  • A man coughing onto his hand while being roped by a blanket. Representation.
  • SlowAd2563 I was really hoping that there would be 2 good things to come out of co id... it being socially acceptable to wear masks in public when you have mild symptoms, and people not being expected to work when they feel too sick to do so... Oh well... at least we still have the inflation...
  • Rachel Silver I had a PCP who shared my attitude about requiring doctors' notes. He'd make them say whatever I wanted. I also liked to say, "I can't get an appointment until tomorrow morning, so I guess I'll be out for two days."
  • Ultrarandom I completely forgot which sub this was because in my country, if the employer requests a doctors note for 1-2 days sick, they are the ones who have to pay for you to go get it. Also confused me about the "passing up money" because of mandatory sick leave. I really feel sorry for Americans and the dystopia that is normalized over there compared to the rest of the west.
  • Jay_JWLH I'm more worried about the other workers who can't afford a doctor's visit.
  • Only One_Kenobi Two takeaways here 1. Assuming this is USA because I doubt there are many other countries where staff are treated this poorly. 2. This is why quarantine laws were necessary during the pan mic.
  • Layla Walsh007 Same here. My employer got rid off two paid sick days without a doctors cert recently. If I'm paying to see the doctor I'm getting a sick note is at least for a week and enjoy the extra free time.
  • okcumputer They pull this sh from time to time at my job. We get a fair amount of paid sick leave, but they can request a note. Every single time it happens, that person miraculously needs a week off and it f pretty glorious. s everyone. It's
  • StinkypieTicklebum My experience is that doctors will become annoyed and give you more time off as a 'finger up' to the teacher or boss.
  • Fkingcherokee I hurt almost my entire body doing out-of-the-usual work at my job. The next day I was asked to do more out-of-the-usual work and told my boss that I couldn't and had to let my body heal. My boss told me that I needed a doctor's note if I needed to only do the work in my job description. It turns out I had a minor tear in my meniscus and everything else was just rightfully sore from hard work. I
  • got a note for the rest of the week off, 15 minute breaks every 2 hours on return, and no crouching at all for over a month. That was the day management learned that I'm not bullshitting if I say I can't do something. I also made mention that the doctor I went to deals with workplace injuries a lot, which might be part of why they now trust me to listen to my own body instead of going to a professional.
  • boRp_abc I used to work at a "you need a doctor's note" place. I'm diabetic, and there are cases when I need to take care of that. I leave sick at 2pm. Doctor is open until 3, so I don't get called up, HAVE to go the next morning. Doctor will always ask "Are you working today? Do you need a not for today as well? Ah, let's make that the whole week!"
  • Instead of having me not work for 2- 3 hours, you got me not working for a few days. Oh well, some people...

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