Remote employee making $75K considers rejecting a senior job offer where he'd make $105K: 'It's 5 days in the office, a 45-minute commute, and obviously comes with a lot more responsibility.'

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A remote employee making $75K does his stress-free job in the comfort of his living room.

Would you give up a fully remote low stress job for a 40% pay bump that is five days onsite?

I'm in my late 20s and currently have a fully remote job making about $75k. It's super low stress, my manager trusts me, and I pretty much have full control over my day.
I just got an offer for a senior role at $105k with a manager title. Sounds great on paper, but it's 5 days in the office, about a 45-min commute each way, and obviously comes with a lot more responsibility.
The money and title are tempting, but I'm honestly not sure they're worth giving up the flexibility and peace of mind I have now.
Has anyone here made a similar move? Did the extra pay end up being worth it, or did you miss the freedom more than you expected?
ducka_ducka_ducka What are your career aspirations and what is your financial situation? I'm in my late-40s and I do wish I'd taken more risks in my 20s before I had a family and when I had way more energy to do hard things. I think you should take it if you want to grow in your career, unless you don't need to worry about money (ever) and have like a side hobby that would fulfill you.
AriaLuxeVibes Late 20s with no major obligations is probably the best time to test your ceiling. If it doesn't work out, you've got plenty of time to pivot.
chris971 Completely agree, it's very easy to get comfortable in the WFH life, however your 20's- 30's is a crucial time for networking and forming relationships with mentors, colleagues, etc. missing that for WFH comfort right now, could lead to a lonely later career without a good network to lean on if you need help looking for work, or for you to help others in your network. Your choices are: Easy now, harder later, or hard now, easier later. (Until Ai takes all the jobs ofc)
Xylus 1985 Yes, in your 20s this is a no brainer. It's not a $105k job, it's a pathway that gets you eventually to a 200k job in the future
tinymeatsnack Can you move closer to the new job? The commute would be a lot for me after being remote for so long.
VariationAny5560 OP Thought about it, but then I would just be paying more rent to live closer to a building I might end up hating lol.
tinymeatsnack Yeah, but a little bit more in rent for peace is worth it. 1.5 hour round trip commute per day 5 days a week is 390 hours a year of driving. Thats almost 10 full work weeks of driving per year. I'd happy dip into that new salary if I could cut that down to 15 or 20 minutes each way. Lotta gas and miles on your car, lot of extra stress when you're already taking on more in the new role. It would burn me out, but I'm 38 years old. At your age you might be able to handle it, but I wou
ghost_mv It's a super good career step. But it's also going to be probably 85% more workload and stress for 40% higher pay. Just keep that in mind. May be worth it to you though. For advancement in my career that step was worth it, I took it.
Gold_Sun_1002 I gave up a hybrid, conveniently located, easy job I loved for the six-figure, 5 days onsite, 2 hr daily commute risk. Turns out I didn't love the prior life as much as I thought I did. I met new people, started new hobbies, saved much more money, and job hopped once more for yet another bump. Then after 2 promotions a few years later at that company, my income has more than doubled what it once was. Not everyone wants to hustle and that's why not everyone will be high income earne
A high-earner picks up a new hobby that enriches his life.
Motor_Vacation_535 A commute like that will wear on you after 1 year. It will wear you down. Not worth it for the commute alone imo.
Employee drives for hours to get to work.
jdiscount Personally I'd keep looking, unless there is a major issue with your current role. If you got a 105k offer you can get another one that is remote. There's nothing worse than accepting an offer and then regretting it.
Flimsy_wimsey Absolutely not. You will spend so much money on clothes and lunch and driving all your time will also be eaten up. You'll have to deal with office politics. And you don't know what it's gonna be like working at a new place. If you're happy where you are, do not change your job.
burnfaith Personally? No. But it's gonna depend on what your goals are and what you value. I have no desire to do any kind of commute (learned this the hard way) and I also don't want to work in an office, let alone 5x per week. So, I'd rather eat the loss of $ and maintain my WFH freedom and not lose what will probably amount to almost 2 hours a day in commute.
eggsonmyeggs I'd take the role. Leave on a good note with your boss if you needed to come back for whatever reason. I'm in a similar boat, easy job and good pay, no one busts my chops really. I'm still looking for something more long term that offers me more in the future. I'm 35 and only recently felt that way about my work. At 28 I would have stayed at your current job and been totally content.

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