Manager cancels employee's 2 week vacation a day before it was due to start, employee considers quitting: 'I gave notice 6 months ago'

Ally Perry • Writer and Editor

Aug 29, 2026 3:15 PM EDT

Is it worth staying in a job that doesn't respect your right to free time?

All of us need a break from our jobs now and then, even the true workaholics. The time we get to rest, recharge, and enjoy ourselves isn't just crucial for helping us do better at work in the long run, but also something we need for our own wellbeing, full stop. Vacation time is a part of having a quality of life.

Unfortunately, a lot of employers do not seem to share that view. They believe that their employees should be willing to drop their PTO whenever they feel like they need it, and they act accordingly. While there are occasionally valid reasons to deny time off, in many cases this is the sign of a company that is not good to work for. If they are willing to deny their workers the vacation days that they should technically be allowed, they are probably going to mistreat them in other ways, too.

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An IT employee applied for two weeks' vacation six months previously, which was approved. He proceeded to make detailed, non-refundable plans with his friends, only for his boss to suddenly cancel the vacation time a day before it was due to start.
He felt that this was totally unfair, and it was making him reconsider staying employed there. He wanted advice on whether it was worth staying or whether he should focus on his side project instead.
My manager just canceled my vacation the day before I'm supposed to leave. Should I finally quit?
About six months ago I gave notice that I'd need roughly two weeks off starting late August, cleared it well in advance, got it confirmed as approved. Planned everything months out around it, flights, bookings, a trip with friends. I've been at this company since last July, standard IT role, something I've genuinely wanted to do since I was a kid and I actually love the work itself. The problem was never the job, it's the company. Just got a message from my manager, vacation's canceled, need to be at work tomorrow. Flights are non-refundable, same for my friends, accommodation's already paid for. This isn't even the first time a planned vacation of mine got pulled, it's just the first time it's happened the day before I'm supposed to leave
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What's really getting to me is that I've been running a small project of my own on the side, something I could've been building full time by now if I wasn't holding onto this job purely out of love for the field. And now I'm sitting here thinking, if the company treats even a vacation that was approved months in advance like this, and this isn't the first time, maybe it's finally time to admit they don't actually value me here.
Friends leave tomorrow without me.
Haven't responded to my manager yet. Do I just cut my losses and quit, or try to fight this one more time?
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Response? My leave was approved on _________ (date). I will not be available by phone until _____________ (date). I will return to work as scheduled on ______________ (date).
If they choose to fire you, that's their choice. It's irrelevant if this leave is for vacation or not. Just do it all in writing.
_Boogity2024
Go on the trip. Live life. Don’t quit. Call the bluff.
_JImagined
Don’t quit. Make them fire you so then you can at least file for unemployment. They’ll fight it but as long as you have receipts of the dates of approval and the last minute cancellation, it should be easy to win.
_{CantaloupeEven6341}
100% go on the trip. Let the cards fall as they may
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