Girlfriend uses his boyfriend's card to order food, even though he told her to delete the card from her phone, she orders $30 worth of food almost every day: 'She’s saying I’m being unreasonable and that I can just pay the minimum payment'

To use a card that isn't yours to order food every day when you are fully capable of paying for it, as you have a job, is insanity and particularly mean.

Would you dare to use someone else's card to pay for stuff you want? And would you continue to do so after they have expressly told you not to use it? And, after all that mess, would you disregard the whole thing as a simple thing that doesn't matter, as they can simply pay the minimum balance? I'm 100% sure no one who is in their right mind would do this. It's not only proof that the person is acting completely crazy, but it also shows that the person doing all this is mean. Why mean? Because they are using someone else's hard-earned money to pay for a luxury they don't need. The person who does this is a thief, and I will not change my mind. It is identity theft and the weaponization of someone's money. It is wrong!

I have a feeling that people are afraid to admit when others are mean. Instead of pointing it out or doing something about it, they just pretend everything is fine. When you have a friend who is always making you feel bad, saying things that are supposed to be jokes but are actually disrespectful words, and talking bad about you behind your back. Most people wouldn't say their friend is mean; they would deem them as 'complicated', or they would simply justify their attitude. This is not okay. It's not right that your friend treats you like this. It shows how insecure and jealous they are, but also how mean. But justifying the attitude is no better. You have to speak of things by their true name; it's mean behavior. It's not right to be forgiving of people who aren't looking for forgiveness, and that's exactly what you are doing when you justify these horrible attitudes. Own up to what it is. If they are being mean or disrespectful, do not tolerate it, do not justify it, do not pretend it is fine. Say that is wrong, end the friendship, call them a mean person, do something! To just stay silent is not condemning the actions and let the perpetuate.

So, next time someone treats you wrongly, do something about it. Whether it is a mean friend, a partner that takes advantage of you, or a family member that disrespects you. Stop being passive. Do something about it! Condemn it. In this case, kick her out of your house. She is using your credit card and putting you in debt over food deliveries. I promise you it's not worth it. Get your life in order. To just accept the bad things that people do to you is not okay. Doing something about it is the way to go. Stop letting others treat you badly just because you are too afraid of telling them how you feel; you are better than that.