Woman Goes on Date With Man Who Admits He’s Been Following Her Social Media for Years, She Discovers the Many DMs He Sent Her Through the Years

The line between creepy and cute is very slim. Two people can do the exact same thing, and one's actions will be interpreted as endearing while the other one may have the cops called on them. We could give you an example. The best ones all come from Rom-Coms. Remember ‘Say Anything’? The 1989 film featuring John Cusack and Ione Skye? Well, there's the iconic scene at the end where he appears in her yard with a boombox over his head blasting Peter Gabriel's "In Your Eyes." Given the context, this was a very cute gesture, but imagine if that wasn't John Cusack. Let's imagine that the guy was actually that old taxi driver who picked you up several years ago and hasn't been able to stop thinking about you since. Suddenly the boombox is less endearing, and I'm sure many of us would happily call the police to get this stalker off of our property.

So have we come to a consensus? Cute vs creepy is entirely dependent on context? Great. So now let's get into this video posted by @piablossom_x about a guy she was asked out by. At first, he told her he didn't have any social media other than Facebook but later revealed that he had lied a little bit.

Here's the storytime

Pia's caption says, 'I'm just glad he told me.'

Here are some of the most upvoted comments:

all those dms are green flags

His dream came true when you approached him.😂

he was embarrassed by his messages but these are amazing 😂

his wattpadd fantasy coming true

Him messaging so much without responses 🚩. His actual messages are green flags. So I give him yellow

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So honestly, we're torn on this one. His DM's weren't so creepy, but should he have just told her from the beginning? Is this a red flag? Or a cute coincidence? Until we figure it out, there are multiple parts to this love affair. Let's watch those as well.

The Date Itself

So no, the date didn't go perfectly, but it clearly wasn't anyone's fault. If anything, it seems this was a great way to break the ice.

The Final Update (So far)