Dramatic Boyfriend Regularly Wakes Girlfriend Up In The Middle Of The Night Due To His Unexplained Allergies

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Jun 27, 2022 6:00 PM EDT

People in relationships obviously want to go above and beyond for their significant others. The point of being in a relationship is to wholeheartedly be there for someone else, and have someone to lean on when you need them the most. If one of the people in the relationship has health problems, we would assume that the other person would try their best to accommodate them. Of course, there's also a limit to how far you could go to accommodate someone else, especially if it starts affecting your own life. In today's 'Am I the A$$hole?' post, OP went above and beyond to accommodate her boyfriend's unexplained allergies. Even though she's done a deep clean of her room several times, his feet still swell in the middle of the night due to an unexplained allergy. Because she cares about him, she tried her best to help out with his allergies, but she's had quite enough at this point. Scroll down to read all the dramatic details below. 

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  • 01
    Plant - r/AmItheAsshole. Posted by u/Hsub0 14 hours ago 32 AITA for not driving my boyfriend home in the middle of the night
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    We gotta hear all the details first before making the call. 

  • 02
    Font - AITA: While spending the night my boyfriend will sometimes wake me up in the middle of the night and say his feet are swelling due to an allergen in my room. We have been dating for a year and this has been going on for five months, prior to five months ago this did not happen. In order to accommodate his allergy, I have had my carpets professionally cleaned five times, purchased all new bedding, purchased air filters, purchased a new couch for my living room, and most recently had hardwo
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    We're still waiting on an explanation for this weird allergy. 

  • 03
    Organism - Since getting the hardwood floors put in a couple of weeks ago his allergies have subsided. A couple of days ago he wanted to spend the night and asked if I could pick him up because he was having car issues, he lives 40 minutes away. That night I took Nyquil and put in earplugs because I had an important meeting in the morning and could not risk not getting sleep. Side note, my nine-year-old had fallen asleep on the couch while we were watching a movie.
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  • 04
    Font - That night around 2 a.m. I woke up to him making loud noises, opening and shutting my windows and doors. I ignored it, he got louder, and then told me his feet were swelling, I told him I would move my nine-year-old to her room and he could sleep on the couch. He said no. I told him he could sleep in my nine-year-olds room, he said no. He said he might sleep in my car. I fell back asleep, I did not offer to drive him home. When I woke the next morning there was a string of texts throughou
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    Font - genuinemilkmom 14 hr. ago NTA, but why continue to have him over? there's so much going on here i feel like it's easy to miss the fact that he still lives with his ex girlfriend. that paired with his horrible demanding attitude and needing to go home immediately in the middle of the night is very concerning. i have also never in my life heard of an allergy that targets your feet.. in the middle of night. he sounds like a nightmare.
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    Font - jwjnthrowawaykfeiofj. 14 hr. ago Certified Proctologist [29] NTA He sounds like the allergen you should be free of. He knew he couldn't drive himself home. He knew his feet sometimes swell at your place. He knew you had an important meeting in the morning. He should have brought money for an Uber to go home or to a hotel if needed -- or stayed home.
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    Font - 1955photo 13 hr. ago S Partassipant [3] ΝΤΑ But he sure is. Just out of curiosity... Have you ever looked at his feet to see if they are actually swelling? I think he is feeding his OTHER girlfriend a line about where he is, and has to go home to keep her happy.
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    Font - Lymantria24 13 hr. ago Exactly what I was thinking too. No grown man would be crying to go home after his feet got swollen from magic allergy problems, which he doesn't want to treat and can't be solved by removing the things in the house. His whole story is just so odd and lacks logic everywhere
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    Font - no_shirt_4_jim_kirk. 11 hr. ago Partassipant [2] Plus, if he's going to tell some elaborate yet unbelievable whopper, he should know that unless he's being stung by bees, covering his feet with alfalfa and fiberglass that "swelling feet" is the dumbest fake allergy I've come across. Take my word for it, as someone who's practically allergic to my own shadow, I've yet to find anything that makes my feet swell due to anaphylaxis. OP, NTA, but he needs to hit the skids.
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    Font - lolita_queen 13 hr. ago You are being incredibly oblivious to the point it's scary. Please recognize you are being played. There is so much wrong in your post and you should not be exposing your child to this moron.
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    Font - pohtaytoepohtaytoe. 11 hr. ago Omg girl he is lying. I also had the same thought that he's totally sleeping with his "ex" gf and that's why he has to leave in the middle of the night. He's deceiving you. Ditch him and trust yourself again. Trust your instincts. Trust your eyes!!!!! They are not swollen. It's not your fault he's caused you to doubt yourself, because he's literally manipulating you. Ditch him. You are better than this.
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    Font - Duanathar 14 hr. ago Asshole Enthusiast [8] NTA. Your boyfriend has it backwards; his actions prove that he does not care about you.
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