Sister Loses Car Privileges, Says Her Life Is Ruined

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mattstaff
May 14, 2021 7:30 PM EDT

Man oh man, anyone who has a sibling knows that drama can break out over the silliest of things. In this case, we have someone's sister pitching a full on fit after having her car privileges revoked. It sounds like she wasn't respecting the car she was graciously being allowed to use at all. So, having those car privileges revoked seems completely understandable. 

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    Font - AITA for not letting my sister use my car anymore? I haven't used my car much this past year because of COVID so I let my sister use it. The times I did use my car there was always garbage, seats were dirty and she uses it as her personal storage. Every time I drove my car I reminded her to keep it clean. She never listened except for the odd time and even then she wouldn't do a detailed clean. I always ended up having to do a detailed clean. So, the last time I drove I told her if she le
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    Font - I reached my tipping point today. I put my regular tires in the back of my car the other day because I went and got them changed over today. I got to the mechanics place and realized my tires were gone. She took them out and didn't even tell me, so I wasted 1 hour driving. My car also reeked of weed and the cup holders had crumbs in them and something spilled. I got fed up and angrily texted her while at the shop that she's not allowed to use it anymore. Then, we went back and forth for a
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    Font - When I got home I was told she was crying and said her life was ruined. I'm 22 and she's 19 turning 20 in a week and I had my first car by 19. She's completely dependant on other people driving her or using my car. Her friends don't have their licenses and she bums money off our parents for everything. AITA? I feel guilty for not letting her use my car. 4 1.3k 3 157 1, Share
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    Smile - carcarbott • 9h NTA she literally almost destroyed your car. if she can't keep a car clean or at least out of accidents, especially a borrowed one, she shouldn't have a car. 6 Reply 1.8k 3 ...
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    Font - L1ttleHOrrOr •9h NTA. She has been in 2 accidents and has been unplugging the dashcam, she clearly doesn't want you to know what she's doing in the car. If the car smells like weed then she is probably driving under the influence, which is very bad, weed generally results in slower reflexes and while your muscles are relaxed and you have a higher chance of surviving an accident, the same cannot be said for the person she could have killed in an accident G Reply 1 132 3 ...
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    Smile - actuallylinkstrummer · 9h NTA in any way shape or form. It's pretty self explanatory as to why. G Reply 1 513 ...
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    Font - Ok_Armadillo4599 • 9h NTA After the second accident i wouldn't have given her the car anymore. If she would get in a big accident (no person gets hurt) and the car would be a big wreck and could not be used anymore, would she give you money for a new car or would you also be without a car? A 6 G Reply 4 53 3 ...
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    Mammal - Throw4w4y_96•9h•Colo-rectal Surgeon [41] NTA. Stand your ground. Your sister needs to learn to either respect your property as she should without being or losing a privilege. G Reply 1 9 •..
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    Font - dusktildawn9· 9h•Certified Proctologist [26] NTA You were kind and she took advantage. She's an adult and should know how to take care of things. # G Reply 4 4 ...
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    Font - Mysterious_Weird987 · 8h · Partassipant [2] NTA, you gave her multiple warnings. G Reply 1 4 ...
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    Font - The_Crazy_Swede · 8h NTA. If only one of these things happened would it have become a no borrowing policy for her. 6 Reply ...
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    Organism - xaggr · 9h NTA treat others as well as they treat you. Take 4 tires worth of her belongings and sell them to make things a bit more even. Jk but seriously, if she doesn't want you to thrive in this life then why should you give a darn if she's on the streets or not. G Reply 4 11 3 ...
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    Rectangle - scrupus • 8h NTA. She shouldn't treat your car as her trash bin and personal property. You warned her multiple times and she gave zero flying rats about your warnings. Definitely NTA. Gotta respect yourself. G Reply + ..
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    Rectangle - bdswhatever • 8h Nta, you asked her to take better care of your car, then you warned her if this would continue she could not use your car any more and then you follow up. G Reply 3. ...
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    Font - whateverisnttaken22 · 8h · Partassipant [3] NTA this sounds like her problem that she's making yours. Do what you gotta do Reply ...
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    Font - innofection · 8h NTA you don't owe her anything. She can get a job and afford her own car 6 Reply 2 3 ...
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    Font - Ok-Explorer8303 · 4h NTA if she doesn't respect your property she doesn't get to use your property G Reply ...
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