Husband Sells Wife-Made Sandwiches For Dirty Burger Money

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    Font - Posted by u/Danny109_ 2 12 e23 3 20 32 6 days ago 32 O AITA For no longer making my husband sandwiches to take to work after discovering he was selling them? Not the A-hole My F33 husband M37 works at an advertising company. We're struggling a bit financially because we're saving up to purchase a new aprtment. He is used to eating fast food and it was costly. He had no problem spending money daily on fast food and after doing the math he spends mor than 300 a month on just fast food. 20$
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    Font - That way he eats healthy and we spare money for rent. Everything was going on well. I noticed he wouldn't respond when I ask wether he liked the sandwiches I make. But kept asking me make more than 2 since he was hungry. Yesterday. He came home with his friend and co worker. We sat at dinner table and his friend brought up the sandwiches I make for my husband. And how delicious they are. I thanked him then he said the price was a bit much. I was confused I asked him to explain and he said
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    Font - stunned my husband denied it. I began arguing with him after his friend left. He said there was nothing wrong with it. I told him I will no longer be making him sandwiches if he's selling them to buy fast food. He defended himself calling this an overreaction since he's not spending money on fast food and said I was being unfair to start an argument over this. I just walked into the bedroom and stayed there then he said I owe him an apology for God knows what and he didn't think it was ac
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    Facial expression - Curlyks Colo-rectal Surgeon [35] 6 days ago NTA. he was profiting off your kindness and labor. he kept that he was selling them a secret because he knew it was wrong
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    Font - DemonicAnjul Partassipant [1] 6 days ago NTA Your husband is ridiculous. On another note, what kind of sandwiches are you making that's he's able to sell them for a high price? Can I have the recipe?
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    Font - insolentpopinjay 6 days ago - edited 6 days ago & 32 More So let met get this straight: 1. Your husband not only eats fast food daily but spends a ton of money on it ($20 can get you a LOT of stuff at McDonald's and even some non- fast food places where I'm from). He has made no attempt to economize or curb his spending despite the fact that money is tight because you're saving for a big purchase. 2. Your husband, an adult man that's lived for nearly 40 years, somehow made it this far in
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    Font - 3. Your husband, in his infinite wisdom, hits upon an idea: he will ask you to make extra sandwiches and sell them to his co-workers to make money. Does he think to keep one sandwich for himself and put that extra income towards the apartment? Nope! He does it so he can go behind your back and get his way. (i.e. eating fast food every day.) What's more, based on others commenting in this thread, it looks like he makes about $15/day doing this. If that's true and we hold his spending habit
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    Font - So when the truth comes out and you VERY RIGHTFULLY get upset what does he do? First, he lets you implicitly take the blame for the high price, THEN he tries to lie his way out and deny he ever did that. When justifiably say you won't be wasting your time planning menus, going shopping and making food for Ted in accounts receivable, he calls your reaction to his selfish behavior an overreaction, says you're being unfair to him and makes the bewildering argument that he's not spending mone
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    Human body - lihzee Asshole Aficionado [12] 6 days ago NTA. Let him make his own sandwiches to sell if he's so hellbent on spending money on fast food.
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    Font - thathorribledude 6 days ago NTA. I read this out loud to my wife while laughing. The look I got back told me everything I needed to know.
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    Font - lexisplays Colo-rectal Surgeon [38] 6 days ago NTA does he really think his eating out isn't costing money?? Groceries aren't free.
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    Font - Missus_Missiles 6 days ago NTA. But this really speaks to the deeper issue of deceit and household budgeting. Also, if he's burning $20 a day on fast food, holy sl.. He needs to slow down. That's a ton of f'-':ing food.

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