Man Kicks SIL Out Of Party For Bringing Fake Service Dog

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    Font - AITA for making my SIL drive five hours home to drop off her so-called service dog? With the upcoming holiday weekend, my wife's family decided to take a new approach after being stuck in traffic every year. Seeing as my wife and I live in the largest house with the most bedrooms, they would visit us again, but they'd take a couple of extra days off to come early and beat the traffic. Over then next couple of days, we're going to have about 20 people arriving at various times to enjoy the
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    Font - Now, my SIL is a huge dog lover. She takes her dog everywhere. She got a fake Service Dog jacket for the dog so she could take it into restaurants, shopping malls, and other places that don't allow dogs. On the other hand, I detest dogs. I don't want them near me, and even less in my house. Before my SIL came, I was extremely clear: no dog. Get a dog sitter. Put a bowl of food and water on the floor and play Homeward Bound on repeat. I don't care what you do, but do not bring your dog to
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    Font - A couple of hours ago at about 7pm, SIL rolled up, opened the passenger side door to her SUV (which she bought solely to give more space to her dog), and out ran old Lassie, ready to run and the place. She actually had the audacity to play it off as ignorance despite my multiple text messages to her saying not to bring her dog. When I told her she couldn't bring her dog inside, she apologetically smiled and said "Sorry, sitter canceled!" and all over There was no sitter. I just said no. T
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    Font - My wife, who has spent the last 23 years of her life enabling her sister, agreed that they could stay just one night. Everyone else was agreeing and my SIL brightened up at this idea, but I know her personality enough to know she's going to turn one night into "I'll do it after breakfast," and that into "oops, had a glass of wine, can't drive now!" I put my foot down and said no. My SIL left for a night drive back home so she could figure out the dog situation, and everyone is mad at me.
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    Rectangle - idontknowyourlife_ · 16h 1 Award NTA but the line about her not being alone she has her "service dog" 9 G Reply 4 3.1k ...
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    Font - NTA I love, love love my dog but I wouldn't dream of bringing her to someone else's house for a long weekend even if she was invited. If I couldn't find a sitter, she gets too anxious at the kennel because I tried boarding her, l'd stay home. Sadly people like your sister make a mockery out of service dogs and cause undue scrutiny for people who have trained dogs because they need them to function. Your sister drives lots of places all times of the day.. if she didn't want to drive back,
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    Rectangle - SolidUpstairs • 15h Colo-rectal Surgeon [31] Imao you are NTA. I love dogs but a badly behaved dog intruding on your vacation is the worst. You didn't sign up for it, you told your SIL no, and now she's dealing with the consequences. G Reply 762 ...
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    Font - iaincaradoc • 16h Certified Proctologist [22] 3 5 Awards NTA. I despise people who lie about their untrained pet being an ESA or an actual service animal. It just makes life all that more difficult for people who have real service animals.
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    Rectangle - leroyjz · 16h Partassipant [1] NTA. I don't understand how your wife and family can't grasp that you told her NO. I have a dog. I love my dog. I will never take my dog somewhere it is not wanted. I will always ask first. 6 Reply 1 210 ...
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    Rectangle - Multifaceted_Learner · 16h NTA. If they didn't want her to drive alone, they should have gone with her. G Reply 139 ...
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    Font - NTA. Sometimes people just need to learn a hard lesson. Unfortunately, I do think the cost of your decision was far too high. She played the kind of hand where the only way she would lose was if you both lost. But I salute you for this on multiple levels. When her family gets upset, just say this "Look I'm sorry, but she could have texted, she could have called, but she showed up with the dog knowing full well I didn't want it in my house thinking she could get away with it, and you all w
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    Font - Nta. An emotional support dog is not a service dog. She is abusing the system and it is because of people like her that make it extremely difficult for people who have genuine service dogs. Not only that, it's selfish people like her that make the adoption process of getting a service dog for people who really need them extremely difficult. G Reply 93
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    Font - mandiekrops · 15h "They called me a monster for making a young woman drive home five hours in the middle of the night, and I said she wasn't alone because she had her service dog. That made them even angrier" This made me chortle. I do not like dogs in my house, either. Nope. Not happening. You're NTA. G Reply 4 124 3
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    Font - teresajs · 15h Prime Ministurd [413] NTA Pet owners like that make it harder for people with legitimate service animals. You were clear that no pets were allowed. Your SIL intentionally ignored you. You did the right thing. G Reply 1 20 3 ...
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    Font - Intelligent-Ad-4568 · 12h NTA. I love dogs, and I have had many. If someone told me please don't bring your dog. I wouldn't bring my dog. Simple as that. If she really doesn't want to leave the dog home, then she doesn't need to come. A G Reply ...
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    Font - OffkilterPendulum7 · 16h Partassipant [2] Nta. Assuming that you have said the truth with its behaviors. It's not trained to do a task for her. It's not even basic trained. So it's reasonable for you not to want it around. And you warned her! If you had given in, she never would have believed any other warnings. Show your family articles about why ones shouldn't fake having service dogs. G Reply 4 20 3 ...
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    Rectangle - Therophis · 15h Wow NTA, you were very clear with her. "No Dog!" That's the same as bringing a screaming toddler to a no kids wedding and saying oops sorry. G Reply ...

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