Boss Forces Employee To Choose Between Demotion Or Termination, Asks If They're Wrong

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    Font - AITA for telling an employee she can choose between demotion or termination? I own a vape shop. We're a small business, only 12 employees. One of my employees, Peggy, was supposed to open yesterday. Peggy has recently been promoted to Manager, after 2 solid years of good work as a cashier. I really thought she could handle the responsibility. So, I wake up, 3 hours after the place should be open, and I have 22 notifications on the store Facebook page. Customers have been trying to come sh
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    Font - I call Peggy, and get no response. I text her, same thing. SoI go in and open the store. An hour before her shift was supposed to be over, she calls me back. I ask her if she's ok, and she says she needed to "take a mental health day and do some self-care". I'm still pretty pissed at this point, but l'm trying to be understanding, as I know how important mental health can be. So l ask her why she didn't call me as soon as she knew she needed the day off. Her response: "I didn't have enoug
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    Font - 1. Go back to her old position, with her old pay. 2.1 fire her completely. She's calling me all sorts of "-ist" now, and says I'm discriminating against her due to her poor mental health and her gender. None of this would have been a problem if she simply took 2 minutes to call out. I would have got up and opened the store on time. But this no-call/no-show is not the way to run a successful business. I think I might be the AH here, because I am taking away her promotion over something she
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    Font - But at the same time, she really could have called me. So, reddit, I leave it to you: Am I the a hole? EDIT: I came back from making a sandwich and had 41 messages. I can't say I'm going to respond to every one of yall individually, but I am reading all of the comments. Anyone who asks a question I haven't already answered will get a response. 9.5k 1.8k 1, Share
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    Font - NTA You aren't taking it away because of her gender or poor mental health You are reacting to her not following the sickness policy of contacting you before her shift TBH not showing up or contacting anyone I wouldn't have been giving her the choice (however check that legally you are ok with that) 6 Reply 4 10k 3 ...
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    Facial expression - NTA She had absolute control over calling in to tell you she couldn't do her work. Not only is that expected, it's simply polite. You would not be able to run a business if your employees randomly don't turn up without notice. She is absolutely taking you for a ride here. O G Reply & 202 3 ...
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    Font - bowtothehypnotoad · 5h NTA If you fail to write a simple text message, pointlessly closing a 12 employee business for half a day, you should expect some repercussions. And if her mental health prevents her from properly performing her job, she probably shouldn't be doing that job. I think your offer is more than fair G Reply ...
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    Font - CowsMan • 5h Partassipant [1] NTA. It seems like she's trying to manipulate you now with the "-ist" statements to cover up for her screwing up. Sounds like she thinks she can "call you out" now on whatever she wants because she's manager. An employee is an employee, if she's doing this now AND trying to manipulate you then there's plenty of people that'll show up on time AND respect the manager positions 6 Reply 1 14 3 ...
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    Font - RecommendationOld871 · 4h NTA You have a responsibility to yourself but also to your staff to keep the business running and profitable so there's work for everyone. This woman is threatening the jobs of your staff. You sound like a stand-up guy. Look after your staff. G Reply + ...

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