Ex Boyfriend Won't Return Woman's Stuff, Woman Wants To Sell His Stuff

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    Font - AITA for selling my engagment ring So little back story my ex fiance and I broke up in October of 2020. I had previously lived with him and left some of my stuff in his state thinking l'd be back. Well, we came up with an agreement I keep the engagment ring and he keeps one of my items that he really enjoyed using. I recently was able to finally go and send his stuff back and told him I would do so if he would pay for my stuff to be sent back and I would pay for his. I asked him to pay fo
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    Font - having me blocked for months saying he's tired of having my stuff and he's throwing it all out. I respond immediatly because he woke me up at 4 am to this message and say I am out of town and will be home in 2 days and will send him tracking information then. I return home, buy a box, take pictures of all his clothes and the ring, and I tape it up. When I go to send it to him he had blocked me once again. My friends believe at this point because of him blocking and unblocking me as well a
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    Font - Excitementintrepid48 · 15h Nta why would you want to hold onto anything that remind you of toxic situation. G Reply 1 49 3 ...
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    Rectangle - PamphletHamlet21 · 15h Partassipant [4] NTA. Sounds like you had an understanding and he did t follow through. Do what you gotta do. G Reply 4 26 3 ...
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    Organism - RanchBaganch • 15h Partassipant [2] I don't understand...I thought you agreed that you get to keep the ring. But then, later on, you say you were about to send it back. If it was agreed that you get to keep it, then no, YNTA. It's yours to do what you please with it. G Reply ...
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    Font - NTA. He said he's throwing your stuff away and blocked you, so he can't expect you to pay to send his stuff back. Message him saying that if you don't hear from him in x days, you'll assume he doesn't want his stuff and get rid of it. You do still want your stuff but if you don't hear back you'll also assume he threw it away, and you'll sell the ring to cover replacement of those items. Keep those messages for receipts in case he tries to take you to small claims later for the cost of the
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    Font - NTA. Seems like a final split of possessions, from the way he's acting. G Reply ..
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    Rectangle - RamSkullRose • 15h NTA. Sell the ring, donate the clothes and block him once and for all. G Reply 金19 ...
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    Font - PeakCreative187 · 12h NTA however two things to confirm he said you could keep the ring and he will keep something of yours? Then the rings yours to do with as you want. However if he is sending you back everything not that it makes it right changing his mind but the official line on engagement rings is it's a promise to be married if you don't get married the ring goes back to the ex. Personally because he already told you to keep the ring it makes it 100% yours. G Reply + ..
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    Rectangle - Rich_27- · 12h NTA Block him, sell his stuff and move on G Reply ...
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    Font - ripinpeppers · 5h NTA Stop letting this guy play games, he already threw away your stuff. Sell the ring and get reimbursed for your trouble. + G Reply ...

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