Ignorant Woman Calls Man's Mother Reckless For Raising 9 Children

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Mayarey
Jan 12, 2022 7:00 PM EST

Everybody makes poor assumptions sometimes. It's completely normal to misread situations and occasionally make an a$s of yourself. Hey, we're only human. But when you get caught making a poor judgment, you need to own to it because over-confident and ignorant is never a cute combo. However, if you're goal is to push people away, you're doing just great sweety.

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    Font - r/AmltheAsshole u/hubstobe • 22h 2 11 e 15 S 14 E 13 AITA for calling my fiancées sister an idiot for her rude comments about the number of siblings I have? Not the A-hole
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    Smile - To start I got 8 other siblings (9 of us in total) . 2 of my brothers are biological and the rest are foster siblings but we're all very close, to me they're my real family so I don't really introduce them as anything other than my brothers/sisters.
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    Font - I'm getting married in a few months and all my brothers are going to be my groomsmen. While sisters were asked by my fiancée to be her bridesmaids. My fiancée's sister Kate is someone we don't talk to much but still her parents convinced her to let Kate be part of it. Recently our families met up for a bbq at our place and this is the first time her family meets mine. Well except her parents since they couldn't make it. I introduced my siblings to everyone.
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    Font - Some point when we were talking to her sister she says "Your parents seriously had 9 kids?" She said it with so much disgust. She seemed really mad about it. I told her yes and Kate goes about how she thinks my parents were selfish and reckless for "never figuring out how to use a condom," and "don't they know how stupid they are for having so many kids when there's already overpopulation?" Part of me found it funny but also very annoyed for thinking that's something she even thought was
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    Font - So I told her they were foster parents and only two of my brothers are biologically related, not that it's any of her business to critique other people's lives. She looked embarrassed and apologized but then she got mad. Kate says well that's something I could've mentioned so to avoid her saying the wrong thing . And I told her how about next time she just doesn't say anything at all and avoid looking like an idiot. My fiancée laughed a little but Kate got mad. She walked off and made a c
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    Font - They know the context but still think I was an asshole because Kate was just bringing awareness to what she thought was something bad and it wasn't necessary to call her names. She doesn't want to talk to me now and while that doesn't bother me at all, I do wonder wasi an asshole at all for doing that? 14.4k 1.1k Share
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    Font - OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I insulted my fiancée's sister by calling her names at a bbq.
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    Font - ladystetson • 22h Certified Proctologist [20] NTA Name calling? you didnt callI her an idiot, you said she looked like an idiot. She seems like a miserable person and she probably would have hated you no matter what. G Reply 1 190 3 ...
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    Font - Bambie-Rizzo • 22h Asshole Enthusiast [7] NTA. She didn't like the taste of her foot in her mouth. Were you just suppose to let her talk crap about her parents? I would've chosen way harsher words than idiot, so she lucked out. Good for you and your fiancé.
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    Font - TheBestPeter · 22h Certified Proctologist [25] NTA. She insulted your family to your face and then got sad that you said something back to her in response? You were far more polite than I would have been in your shoes. If she doesn't want people saying mean things to her, maybe she shouldn't walk up to people and talk shit about their families. You were very much in line here. 6 Reply 1 420 3 + ...
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    Font - Kill_The_Dinosaurs · 22h Partassipant [2] NTA. Even if they were all your biological siblings - that's a really gross thing to say. It's not her business and it's not hard for her to just keep her damn opinions to herself. G Reply & 750 3 ...
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    Rectangle - Chrizilla_ • 22h Partassipant [4] NTA, if she didn't have anything nice to say, she shouldn't have said anything at all. Seriously, what was her end game in bringing something like that up? G Reply 4 1.8k 3 ...
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    Product - Squinky75 · 22h Asshole Aficionado [10] 102 Awards << Kate was just bringing awareness to what she thought was something bad >> Who asked her? Your parents don't need her permission. Also, if they were biological, what are you supposed to do -- shove them all back up your mother? "Get back in there, Linda. Kate says you don't deserve to be alive." 6 Reply 1 26.1k 3 ...
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