Groom's Brother-In-Law Hands Out Wedding Invitations At His Wedding, Gets Told To Leave

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mattstaff
Oct 8, 2021 9:00 AM EDT

Of all the stunts that you can pull at someone else's wedding this right here, ranks as one of the lowest of the low moves to make. Seriously, the level of cluelessness that's running amok in this scenario pretty much escapes all rhyme and reason. The fact that this groom got a hard time from the in-laws over his decision to ask the brother-in-law to leave after his wildly inappropriate stunt is another sloppy layer of dysfunctional in this disastrous mess of a situation. 

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    Font - AITA for telling my brother in law to leave after he kept handing out his wedding invitations at my wedding? Not the A-hole My wife's brother M37 and I M33 (I don't call him brother in law for reasons). He's a doctor and takes bride in his line of work and treats others as less than. Admittedly, he's civil enough to be around he's a dad to a 16 year old daughter, he's engaged and was supposed to get married last month but postponed because he had a fight with his father in law.
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    Font - He got involved in our wedding by criticizing the rules we had from the food, menu, who should and shouldn't attend according to his "prestige". And also started sulking because he wanted his fiancee to be MOH but my wife and I didn't agree. Days before this wedding he came to us and asked if he could announce his wedding date before the ceremony begins but I politely said no. He said fine and dropped out.
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    Font - At the day of the wedding he showed up with his fiancee and daughter in the middle of the ceremony. And didn't even sit he just started going around shaking guests hands and handing them small cards which turned out to be his wedding invitations. I was upset but couldn't interrupt the ceremony but obviously people were distracted which was awful. The ceremony was over and he was still handing out his wedding invitations and talking about how his wedding will look like from the atmosphere
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    Font - disrespecting my marriage and my wedding and my guests by doing that. He blew up and listed all the things I didn't consider like letting his fiancee be the MOH, letting his daughter sing with with the band or karaoke and now creating a problem over him handing guests invitations. He then literally asked " how dare you make today all about you?" Do you own Wednesday?" I lost it on him and told him to leave immediately. His fiancee and MIL came and tried to get me to drop it but I told him
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    Rectangle - ladz42791 · 22h I'm sorry, he handed them out MID CEREMONY? What kind of delusional world do you have to live in to do that? NTA at all, and I wouldn't go to that wedding even if you are invited. A Reply ↑ 1.9k 3
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    Rectangle - 4 Awards NTA. Now I'm expected to make amends and apologize or I won't be invited to his wedding. I'm not seeing a down-side, here. 6 Reply 4 9.2k 3 ...
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    Rectangle - dodie2599 · 22h Partassipant [3] Lol, support his sister???!!!!! NTA. Lol, honestly honey just go ahead and go no contact with aa your in laws... G Reply 1 10 3 ...
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    Font - NTA but I say go to his wedding and announce a pregnancy. G Reply + ..
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    Rectangle - OGrouchNZ · 21h NTA. If I was attending a wedding and someone was rude enough to hand me an invitation during the ceremony like he did, you can bet your a$$ I would not be attending. That is so beyond rude. G Reply ...
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    Font - lotus_eater123· 21h Partassipant [3] From what you've written, he interrupted the wedding ceremony itself? You didn't need to write anything else. This is the biggest asshole that ever breathed. NTA G Reply ...
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    Organism - I think you should apologize. Then I think you should adopt a puppy and hand out invitations to your new puppy's birthday/welcome party to everyone at your BIL's wedding. NTA G Reply ...
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    Font - EMSgirl1234 · 21h NTA and the problem with that is????? G Reply ...
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    Handwriting - nuts_n_bolts · 20h NTA in the slightest. I wouldn't make amends, cause it's not a wedding I would want to attend. Tbh, sounds like he got off easy. I have quite a temper and I would not have handled that gracefully. G Reply ...
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    Rectangle - Competitive_Tree_113 · 21h we're you planning on going to his wedding? ... NTA G Reply ...
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    Font - No_Pineapple6086 · 21h NTA. How does your wife feel? G Reply
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    Rectangle - mildchild4evr · 21h NTA- at his wedding hand out apology cards to the bridal party for having to suffer him. Please use a pic of you in your suit as the cover pic. Lol G Reply
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    Font - Cry-Inside · 18h NTA and devil advocate here but maby, and I don't suggest unless YOU WANT TO BE THE AH, but how would he feel if you say hand out pictures from your wedding and thank you cards during his wedding.... Just saying 6 Reply 仓24 ...
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