Man Fuming When GF Discovers He Has Been Lying About His Age For Over A Year

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Mayarey
Nov 7, 2021 3:00 PM EST

Sometimes you can just feel it when someone is lying to you. Sure, you can look for the typical signs like avoiding eye-contact and rising body temperatures, but most of the time it's just a gut instinct. This girl had a feeling that her boyfriend was hiding something from her. Is her snooping justified since she turned out to be correct? That's up to you to decide.

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    Human body - r/AmltheAsshole u/throw-away1201 · 9h AITA for snooping in my boyfriend's room and catching his lie?
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    Font - |(F 19 ) have been with my boyfriend ( M 20, or so I thought ) for a little over a year now. This is where it gets a little long.
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    Smile - He recently ( April '21 ) got an animal. He loves his pet, and one day he made the comment that the name of his pet is his Chinese zodiac sign. Now, me being nosy, I looked up the zodiacs, but (what I thought) was his birth year, wasn't under that zodiac. That's when I started thinking.
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    Font - He told his family I was 20. We went to a restaurant one time and they offered a wine sample, to which he gave them his ID and turned to me- in my shocked face, because I thought neither of us were of age- and said that it was a fake. He said his zodiac was one thing but it doesn't add up to his birth year. Whenever I asked the question of what year he was born, he avoided the question. Every. Single. Time. |
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    Font - l'd never gotten an answer to the birth year question. So, I took matters into my own hands. One morning, when he was out, I went into where he keeps his wallet to look at his ID. The year it said didn't match up to his age. I figured it was the fake, and I knew he kept his other ID in his phone. I looked at the other ID, still, the same year, not the birth year I thought he was for the past year of us being together. He lied to me for a whole year and some.
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    Font - Somehow he found out that I snooped in his stuff and this was the conversation: H: "So, what were you looking for in my phone? Did you find anything? Ask me questions cause I know you have them." M: "How many fakes do you have?" H: "2" 2... He lied again. He doesn't have any fakes!!! This man straight up lied to my face even though he saw I was distraught.
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    Font - After this, he proceeded to berate me on looking through his things and how it was my fault that we're arguing and I put myself into this mess. He then admitted he lied... but still put the blame on me!! He got really upset with me and is currently ignoring me.
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    Font - I understand that looking through his things wasn't something I should've done. But he wasn't answering my very valid questions.
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    Font - He's trying to make me out to be the bad guy when l'm not the only bad guy!! Turns out, he's 5 years older than me. I wouldn't care so much about it, had he mentioned it before we got in a relationship. It's just an age, but it hurts that he could sit there and lie to me for our entire relationship, even after I brought him around my family and friends. Who knows what else he could be lying about.
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    Font - My friend says I'm in the wrong because I looked through his things. Another friend says it's not entirely my fault.
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    Font - He isn't talking to me right now and l'm not sure how to go about fixing our situation. I still don't see how l'm completely at fault.
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    Font - So, with everyone's thoughts, Am I the Asshole? TLDR: I snopped in my boyfriend's room only to find out he'd been lying to me for our whole relationship. Edit: Ages have been switched as to avoid any possible identification. People on the internet are amazing at finding people's identities. The rest of the story is true, and I did believe he was 20. 4 1.1k 3 261 |↑, Share
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    Rectangle - soitgottabelikedat · 9h NTA he shouldn't be lying about his age. I wonder how long he thought that would work for him. G Reply 4 286 3 ...
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    Font - NO DRANA LLANA 89elbeees · 9h NTA. If he's lied about something so slight as age... what else is he lying about? G Reply 4 2.1k 3 ...
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