Woman's FIL Demands His Daughter Is In Her Wedding, And Not The Bride's Actual Sister

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Dec 22, 2021 2:00 PM EST

Planning a wedding involves a lot of different steps, and it's not the kind of event that one can prepare on their own. So we hire people and ask our friends and family for their input as well. But there should definitely be a limit on how involved your family can be. If they're paying, of course, they deserve to limit the festivities and have the final say on the budget, but they can't control who you assign as your maid of honor, or groomsmen, or anything else. Those are very personal decisions, and it's simply no one else's business.

But that's just our opinion, who do you think is in the wrong in this post?

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  • 01
    Font - Posted by u/FILİSBLEH 7 hours ago AITA for having my sister as my MOH?
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    Font - I'm getting married, and I only have one sibling, and that's my older sister. There are just 15 months between us, s o we are close.
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  • 03
    Hair - My fiance's father (FIL from this point on) hates my sister. He's only met her in person once.
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  • 04
    Font - My sister's job is in marketing and promotions. So her Instagram and social media looks like she's always partying.
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    Font - The thing is, that's her job. When she's off work, she's usually just a chill person. She's in a Monogamous relationship with her fiance. He's a DJ, so his social media looks crazy too.
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  • 06
    Hair - My FIL and some of my fiancé's family judge them.
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  • 07
    Hair - "All they do is a party." And they think of them as bad influences on my marriage.
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  • 08
    Human body - My FIL doesn't want my sister to be MOH. He wants his daughter to be MOH.
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  • 09
    Font - My sister and my family would be hurt. I don't care if my sister has pink hair.
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  • 10
    Font - My sister and her boyfriend are very financially well off. It's stupid to judge them based on their work persona and think their Instagram is their everyday life.
    via u/FILisBLEH
  • 11
    Font - Also, my sister has 2 bachelor's degrees and is working towards her master's. It's stupid to judge her by her Instagram.
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  • 12
    Hair - I'm not backing down, and my fiancé's family is hateful over the MOH situation.
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  • 13
    Font - I feel like if my fiancé can't back me up, we need to either elope or call off our wedding.
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  • 14
    Font - OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I'm thinking of not letting anyone be MOH or even have that title since my Fiancé's family hate my sister so much.
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