Delusional Boyfriend Thinks It's Fine To Bring His 'Murderous' Dog Around GF's Small Animals

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    Font - AITA for kicking out bf because of his dog?
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    Font - I know the title is going to get people riled up, but hear me out on this. I (31f) have been dating "Dude" (29m)for 8 months. It has been great. He has a dog that is 8, that he has had since she was a puppy. I have nothing against dogs, I'm just not a fan of owning them simply
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    Font - because 1. I live in an apartment and I feel they need a yard and 2. I don't want to do all the clean up that is involved with them. He takes his dog most places with him, which is fine. She is very well behaved and has never
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    Font - caused any problems. In my place, I have an elderly cat as well as a guinea pig (and gerbils, 3 fish tanks, and a partridge in a pear tree). I usually go over to his place to hang out for the sake of his dog.
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    Font - The other day he offered to come over to my place to hang out and help me install a new wall mount. I said it was fine. Without asking if it was okay first or even bringing it up to me, he had brought his dog with him. My apartment doesn't allow dogs even as guests, so I had a bit of anxiety about it. His dog was
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    Font - doing fine, when suddenly she started barking like crazy which seemed out of character for her. Dude then said, "oh I forgot, you should put your animals away in a locked room." I asked why and he laughed and said with a smile, "dogs name is a murderer. She killed my ex's rabbits. She got into the cage and everything. They aren't safe until they are locked in a room."
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    Font - I was pissed. He knew I had small animals. This wasn't a surprise thrown at him. And he knew about this issue, and brought his dog over without permission or warning. I told him he needed to leave now, and take the dog with him. He isn't invited over anymore.
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    Font - He got upset at me and called me a dog hater, said that is just how dogs are and I should be more accepting of her. I didn't respond, just continued to push him out the door. AITA here?
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    Font - ETA: my friends are chipping in, telling me this is just my "anti dog mentality" coming out, and that I should be more open to "doggos". It is really frustrating. I don't understand how some people can be so love blind to a dog.

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