‘Saint Karen saw our engagement as perfect opportunity to swoop in and demand control over our marriage’: Fiancé defends his bride from his mother’s inappropriate demands, refusing to let her dictate their wedding or children’s future

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  • "MIL tried stirring trouble the moment she heard our engagement news. Didn’t even congratulate once"

    "She's been sulking, sending passive aggressive bible verses"
  • My fiancé and I got engaged few days back and as soon as his mother heard the news, she immediately started with the drama. It wasn't enough that i love her son and that we've built a great life together, now i need
  • to convert to being baptist before she'll "approve" of the wedding. She also declared (as if she has any say) that our future children must be raised baptist. I'm catholic and my SO and i already sorted all of this out long ago.
  • We're getting a dispensation from canonical form from my church and he's completely on board with raising our future kids catholic. But ofc saint karen saw
  • our engagement as the perfect opportunity to swoop in and demand control over our marriage
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  • Her son took exactly zero seconds to shut down her nonsense. She started one of her "I just don't know if i can support this marriage" monologues when my fiance said, "if you keep
  • pushing this, you will neither be a part of our wedding nor our marriage. You won't even know your grandchildren, let alone dictate their religion. This is not up for discussion." And then the
  • cherry on top he added, "you always talk about family values and god but the way you act, i wouldn't trust you around my family"
  • Since then, she's been sulking, sending passive aggressive bible verses via text (which he ignores, so she forwards it to me), and making vague facebook posts about how "some people turn
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  • their backs on their faith for earthly desires." I'm not even doing anything, her son is the one taking command here, god knows what she's despising me for
  • slaytician Congrats. He sounds like a good man.
  • Salt-Operation She despises you because you've "taken" her baby boy away from her and her need for absolute control. Good on your fiancé for shutting that sh down immediately.
  • Punningisfunning Congrats. What a great fiancé you have.
  • JoMamaSoFatYo NTA, and kudos to your husband for standing up for you both from the start. Sounds like you have yourself a keeper!
  • Professional Tap4338 Dont waste your time and energy. Block her.
  • Adventurous_Yam8784 you have a keeper. I love him. He needs to spread the word to all the men who are afraid of their mums. As far as MIL I keep to minimal to no contact Id mute her on FB and block her number until she gets her head on straight
  • Least-Scientist Congratulations OP. You and your husband are gonna go far in life with your compromising ability and over banality to w d out the background noise. Your
  • soon to be husband sounds awesome. Hopefully you two can avoid too many "earthly desires" (just kidding) MIL sounds a little fanatical
  • Trick_Magazine2931 He's a keeper. Block her on everything, he's handling it very well.
  • harpfizzz Gosh it's so refreshing seeing a partner stand up for their spouse against horrible family memebers
  • qCallisto Massive green flag from your future husband. Now listen, you can live plenty fine without a MIL but not with a bad husband. I'd take this as a win.
  • whythiscrap She's SO jealous of you... congratulations

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